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So here is a bit of clarity on this question...

I was on a dating website, I have always put on my bio "please no single mothers". Which I think is perfectly fine. The reason for my preference is because I have relationship & courtship in the past with single mothers and it was messy. Another reason is I am selfish. If you go into a relationship to give than you should give it openly and equally. To me dating single parents means you will always be at the bottom of their list (which is natural). Plus I want my own children & most don't want more so I think it is unfair to sacrifice what I want for someone who doesn't. So there are my reasons...

Not exactly I said anything racist or disgusting as it is my preference. Yet I had several angry messages from many angry women saying I was "disrespectful" and "mean".

Yet I am sure women who put the same thing but say dad's. They don't get half the problems.

So why are you single mom's get upset about it?

Respectful answers please no snowflake or butt hurt answers. I have asked a reasonable question so I expect a reasonable answer.

I've been in two at this point, there was a girl I was with for 6 months in 2020 but she had her mom tell me she passed away and months later when I was talking with who is now my girlfriend, I was given answers by her new boyfriend at the time when I begged him to say something.

She ended up messaging me but offered no explanation and the only apology i got was "I'm moving in with him in a year, sorry". While it sucks that it ended that way, I'm glad she didn't die cause the last thing I did before that stunt was pulled was ask her why she didn't tell me about the late text she got from who's now her current boyfriend at the time. Yeah, that sucked and I wish I'd been with my current girlfriend from the start.

Me and her are still together and going strong. We talk every single day and say "I love you" every day. She's been there for me like nobody else has and I've done the same for her and will continue to.

I've grown so happy with her that I question the way I described finding her, I said trying to find someone was like being on a planet made out of trash and fecal matter knowing that for the entire planet, there's one microscopic diamond there but the rest is literal shit and I had to dig until I found it.

Of course it was all worth it as I now experience love which is something I thought for a long time, I'd never experience in my life and it's wonderful. I'd never want to be with anyone else but I did question if describing so many people as trash and fecal matter in my analogy was too harsh.

However, as soon as I started watching loyalty tests, yeah I'm thinking I was right on the money there, pun intended. You name it and girls + guys did it in those tests, it's sad that people are so horrible to eachother nowadays.

What do you value most in a relationship? The most important things for me are affection, support, gotta at least be cute, nice, genuine, introverted and loyal. Money is a factor but not a big one for me