Personally, words do have meaning, but coupled with words, ACTIONS can solidify or cement what someone says.
In the context of relationships, it can create nearly unbreakable trust amongst a couple.
My answer to the question:
•I would go into a club or party setting and see how she reacts to other men flirting or hitting on her if they do
-People flirting or hitting on your significant other can be quite expected, but HER reaction to this is what matters
•How often she goes out or wants to go out with just her girlfriends to go party, club, etc. Specifically WITHOUT you
-On it’s face it may not seem abnormal, but what this may indicate is that her mind or priorities may not line up with yours. You can probably guess why she wants to all of this without you. It may mean she has an unreasonable attachment to attention or is mixing up with the wrong crowd/bad influencers. This can cause her to do things she may regret in the immediate future. Also, she may not care so much for your relationship with her if she wants to go out a lot WITHOUT you.
•Does she wants to move in with you, have children, etc.
-What are her answers to these questions? If she’s uninterested in these then I feel like the attachment or loyalty she has to you may potentially be FLIMSY. If a woman wants to eventually move in with you, own a home with you, and raise children with you then it is evident that she wants to invest heavily into you and the relationship. If not, then maybe she’s just looking for something less committal, hence may not care as much of being reasonable, loyal, etc.
You don't need to do all that. Since this question was worded toward a woman I will use female pronouns but clearly this applies to both genders (sue me for being binary) Just look at her action to her family, her friends, her work. Yes words to matter too. Listen to the words she chooses to use. The context she places herself with others, with you. When she vents what is the root point cause of her venting? Does she talk about people behind their backs but not to their face. All easy dead give aways.
I would have huge resentment if I thought my partner was deliberately engineering situations for the purpose of testing me. And I try to practice the Golden Rule in relationships, so I will not test her. Date long enough and disloyalty will show itself.
It's more about basic respect rather than loyalty... I don't want to find out from random people or on social media that they were at a club with a bunch of random people all over them flirtatiously. I want to be invited to hang out with their friends so I don't feel threatened by any of them. it's really just being open and honest about everything
Her virginity is the true loyalty badge. If she is not a virgin, she cannot be loyal.
Because her soul is stolen by the person who had sex with her. She will continue to suffer from the past for eternity. doomed to damnation. Must become a Nun for soul cleansing, and beg to Jesus for forgiveness.
