He didn't text me for 3 days after a huge fight, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I started the fight first, I told him that he didn't call me, he didn't try to spare his time for us to have a quality time, he always said he's busy, he didn't try to look for topics, all he did was answered all my questions & my random stories but he didn't ask me a question back and he didn't tell me anything, he's just flat. He was not trying to put an effort into making our conversation go. He didn't really do anything for me, he didn't do something sweet, he didn't take initiative as a man, he didn't care about me and I was wasting my time. Yes, I told him all of those things, and then he started to get really mad. He denied everything I said, and called me selfish & stubborn. He said I always complained and talked about him every day. He said he's busy, but then I saw him running 2km after working, which means he could spare his time to exercise, but not for me. and for the first time in our relationship, he told me to leave him alone because he said he was very mad and upset and unhappy, so I did. and the next day, he still texted me in the morning and I answered him and then he ignored it until now.

[Anonymous]

Well... Some people have busy lives and I am sorry someone can't dedicate all their time to you. Sometimes things aren't meant to be. The problem lies that he never tries to find free time to do anything that I see problems with.

Another thing "he didn't take initiative" and then you throw in "as a man" any woman who talks like that is a HUGE red flag. Both men and women should be able to take initiative but whatever.

I think that you are sexist and have a problem with men. Number one. I think that he himself really isn't putting effort into things at all. If he literally does nothing for you and you do stuff for him or if he expects you to do stuff but gives nothing in return... This is also a problem.

It takes two to make a relationship work. Some people are just not meant to be together. You can go to couples consoling or break it off or you can just try and put this whole thing behind you and move on. Your choice.

But you lost me when you start saying "like a man" LOL that is red flag number one with a woman and I loose interest pretty fast because most women who talk like that are just wanting a man to make up for what they don't have themselves and it's just really pathetic.

Also if he was busy with a run then he WAS in fact busy and

exercise is a basic human need.

I think you both have problems at least as far as the relationship goes. Maybe you aren't sexist but most women who talk like that are even if they won't admit it

I think it is childish to ignore someone. I mean you could tell them A TORNADO IS COMING. THE HOUSE IS BURNING DOWN. CHINA IS NUKING AMERICA even if it is something important they won't respond. Someone could have died or anything and they don't care.

Now sometimes someone is just busy and can't reply back instantly but THREE DAYS... Even if he is mad that is a bit much

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm going to tell you something you might not like, but from what I see up there ^^^ you are wound way to tightly for anyone's good.. including your own.

So he didn't elaborate on your conversation.. so what? So he went running for 2km after work.. .. that isn't even very far..

Honestly? The fact he text you good morning wasn't just to wish you good morning.. He wanted to know you were ok. That tells me he cares a great deal about you, but he's also very annoyed with you and rather than have another argument? he's choosing to do the sensible thing and cool off before speaking to you again.

We all have out faults.. nobody is infallible. Leave him to calm down and I have no doubt things will be better soon enough.

[Guy13]

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[Siren777]

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[Iron_Man]

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