Search Results: communication in a relationship

How can I overcome the fear of losing my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and I have been together a month so far. It’s still the beginning stages which I’m very aware of but so far everything has been awesome. He and I have very open communication and understanding with each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

The guy I like calls me sexy but has a girlfriend?

My "situationship" texted me out of nowhere after almost a month of zero contact. Last week I noticed his insta had initials and a heart in his bio and a selfie with a girl and him as his profile pic. I found the girls...

xonotyourtypicalgirl

Xper 1 Age: 21

Not sure how to proceed with my ex suffering from trauma?

my ex girlfriend became triggered around me due to her past abusive relationship and other past SA. We talked about it and she didn't blame me for anything she was struggling with her trauma and realizing that she could...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Reasons ADULTS break up

When to Break up disclaimer: "each Relationship is unique" and can differ from these ideas, which are not the only reasons to separate, just common reasons. a common reason to end the relationship =break up is arguments...

strateguy632

Master Age: 50

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Girls, My girlfriend is currently undergoing ivf, our relationship is 6 months old, since starting 6 weeks ago she has got very distant?

We have known each other 2.5 years and she has never hid the fact she wanted a child. I’m supporting her ivf journey but the lack of communication is difficult. She has spent time with friends and family but not me, she...

LukeMac

Xper 1 Age: 40

What is the most important thing in a long term relationship?

Trust, compassion, communication etc... what would you consider the most important thing to maintaining a good healthy relationship?

ManHater

Yoda Age: 27

Trust, compassion, communication etc... what would you consider the most important thing to maintaining a good healthy relationship?

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Is it right to feel cheated after the breakup?

Ok so going into the relationship this girl knew she had mental health issues from previous trauma she had been through in previous relationships. So those issues caused many arguments cause she would have temper...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Falling in love with a married man?

I find myself developing feelings for my married boss, and our relationship has been progressing in a way that makes me question my emotions. There are several instances that indicate his attraction towards me: His body...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is a relationship possible if she hates communication?

Like she seems to be annoyed by it, when I need to talk to her about something she’s already preoccupied with something on social media

Anonymous

(30-35)

How soon is too soon?

I want to move in with my boyfriend. We’ve only been together for 6 months. But the opportunity has arises that we could both start over. We both didn’t want the relationship; but we’ve been together almost everyday...

catch222

Xper 4 Age: 33

I want to move in with my boyfriend. We’ve only been together for 6 months. But the opportunity has arises that we could both start over. We both didn’t want the relationship; but

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What are ways my boyfriend and I can overcome our traumatic pasts from toxic people?

My boyfriend and I are in the early stages of our relationships. So far things are going great. We both have healthy communication, see each other at least 3 times a week, and very happy together. We both got into our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do they ever come back?

We broke up due to my lack of proper communication and understanding. We dated for a year total and were friends for a year before that. we had a conversation 5 days after she broke up with me and the breakup had given me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Texting for 3 months EVERY DAY with a guyfriend, he's a crush on my friend but he denies it, he opened about his ex to me. what am I to him?

I texted him first one day to show my support for sth, didn't have any feelings towards him then, just wanted him not to be sad. He picked up our chat , now we text each other every day. He shares things from his life but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend liked his ex photo on instagram. do I have a right to be upset?

My boyfriends ex does not like me, and he has told me this before. She thinks I “stole” him away from her and has feelings for him still. He told me several times that he does not like her and doesn’t have the intent to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Been going through a rough patch win relationship communication breaking down and leading to huge fights, he told a small lie, I asked for time away?

How long is long enough to think through everything? I'm just feeling so anxious and even though he lied I don't know if breaking up is what I want but I feel like it might be only option now

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if he is being genuine when he says he is working on himself? If he is, will he come back?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.

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Is it just better if autistic men stay single?

I currently have a failed relationship and things I read paint a dire picture many with Asperger’s have failed relationships and a 80% divorce rate. So with that being said what’s the point when no matter how good things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What makes some men mature or immature, and what makes some immature or mature is their personality traits?

A guy my age was 33 years old and I gave up, so I checked an online dating site called freedating. co. uk and saw a guy who was different. It was me who messing with him first, and in response he sent me a message and...

TheSimFans

Xper 5 Age: 27