What makes some men mature or immature, and what makes some immature or mature is their personality traits?

[TheSimFans]

A guy my age was 33 years old and I gave up, so I checked an online dating site called freedating. co. uk and saw a guy who was different. It was me who messing with him first, and in response he sent me a message and asked to talk on Whatsapp. On freedating. co. uk, other profiles listed Casual Relationships, Serious Relationships, and Friendships. Other guys just listed Casual Relationships on their profiles and others said friendship. A new man was 31 years old. That I have been communicating with on WhatsApp and whose profile says he has autism and ADHD stands out from the rest. my traits in men that i like are respectful honest about what they looking for or interested in, open minded, communication , trustworthy, ask questions if you don't know and common interested. The first guy was all over places with different women but still was in a relationship i saw on Facebook. The first guy was no good and was a player and a cheater that i only found out through facebook. One woman commented that she had been in a relationship for four years with the first guy and i did move on to the new men that i been messaging on whatapps and setup a meetup/first date at public parks. the new men did let me know he was seeing a girl but the girl broke off because she said he was going to slow and he didn't had to messaging me that but he did anyway. When it comes to men, maturity or immaturity depends on their personality traits, not their age?

[OfMiceandMen]

Immature:

1) not apologizing for something he did wrong.

2) Can't admit he's wrong even though its obvious.

3) leaves a trail of broken people behind him.

4) Throws tantrums just like a kid.

5) Cares only about himself in any situation and can't put himself in anyone else's shoes and understand how they feel.

[TheSimFans]

@OfMiceandMen is ghosting part of being immature if happen after the first dot/meetup that been cut short. some men are good at hiding the immature traits until after. some are not good at hiding immature traits but do blocked them or rejected and sent them to friendzone. video games are not always way to if man is a manchild.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think you will find ghosting is common in internet relationship startups, women use it just as much as guys when they find they are not interested anymore. It is what makes internet dating that much easier. As for video games, it depends on the person. As long as they do other things and not playing them all hours of the day, then they are just form of entertainment. At least some video games interact and introduce puzzles, etc. so the mind is engaged too. Better than watching hours of regular TV. But as I said, if he's attached to the game all the time, where it effects your relationship then, it becomes a concern.

[TheSimFans]

@OfMiceandMen i seen ghosting happen a lot online dating and can also happen after you meetup with one person but stopped texting and still think is type of ghosting to. i only date men with a learning disabilities. I'm play vidoe games sometimes and not all the times. i had more bad experince with some friendship with some women.

[SunnyRS]

The level of maturity in people depends on the circumstances they saw in the early stages of their life and how they impacted them.
So it is depended on their behaviour a little but it's a chain reaction linked to the things they seen or faced.

[SunnyRS]

Thank you for the MHO

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He just is, I am a bit immature too. I am working on myself. But in the real world I act much more mature than online.


It’s important for him to realize and work on himself.

[Danny_dan92]

Age + their own personality + life experiences = how mature they are

[Jltakk]

That's a lot of successful matches. I guess immaturity is the complete lack of nuance and foresight.

[TheSimFans]

@jltakkjltakk some of them match were not successful and did get tons of likes and messaging that i got from only older men. i did get lot match but some of them were not it. only metup with one but is wasn't successful at all.

[TheSimFans]

messaging me

[SigmaNiggeh]

Maturity comes from taking care of ones self. Whereas immaturity comes from Irresponsibility over ones self.

[Likes2drive]

I would think it has to do with upbringing mostly