The guy I like calls me sexy but has a girlfriend?

[xonotyourtypicalgirl]

My "situationship" texted me out of nowhere after almost a month of zero contact. Last week I noticed his insta had initials and a heart in his bio and a selfie with a girl and him as his profile pic. I found the girls insta and can assume it's his girlfriend (they both go to the same college). Just around 2 or 3 days ago he texted me saying, "Hey its been awhile. How have you been?" We chatted and he said he'd like to hangout soon and would love to see me. And just today he texted me "Hey sexy." I don't know if him and his girlfriend are in an open relationship or what... is he just trying to keep me as an option or trying to see of there's anything there with me? For more context i've known him since middle school but never talked to him/hanged out in the same circle as him (but i did and still have a crush on him) and we have been talking on and off for almost 2 years now. So should I cut communication with him or what?

Updates

10 mo

UPDATE: i made a fake instagram account and messaged his girlfriend. i found out he is not in an open relationship. yesterday i sent his girlfriend the proof of him cheating and right after that i noticed he blocked me on snapchat and instagram. she told me that he said this happened in his previous relationship (a girl sending his girlfriend screenshots of messages that he's cheating). she told me they have been dating since October, and thank you for sending her the message.

[SueShe]

I would be cautious because it looks as if this guy is trying to keep you as a backup trophy just in case it does not work out with his girlfriend. That is a red flag and I would not even reply to his message. If you do reply, then it indicates that you agree with him calling you "sexy" or at least, you do not object being called that.

If he posts on his social media with someone else, then this should be a warning to you to keep a low profile and not attempt to make him believe that you are remotely interested in him. Avoid all possible conflicts.

[_Maya_]

He might be seeing if you are interested to either be his side girl or if you are a better option than his girlfriend. Either way don't take the bait and become part of the problem in his relationship. If it were me, I would stay the heck out of it and away from him unless he were single. You don't want to be known as that girl that ruined a relationship. Make it clear to him.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he wants you as a side piece. I'd cut his static line if I were you.

[strateguy632]

he meant a compliment so dont break contact

[Flower7]

You should reply to “Hey sexy” by texting “Don’t you have a girlfriend?”

It seems like you’ve never verified that he’s actually in a relationship, you’re just going by clues on his social media. The first step is to find out whether he is or not.

[jahaims]

If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. Don't be a homewrecker

[Anonymous]

Hey sexy sounds like something lacking of respect completely and considering his girlfriend also... why would you even meet with him? Better just cut communication until he is firstly more respectful and secondly more serious about you

[DermalPunch]

Yes, you are an option.

[DermalPunch]

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[In_Trance]

Ask his girlfriend what should happen next

[LavLavLuv]

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