Write him a letter making it completely explicitly clear that you and he are not friends anymore. Tell him:
-He's made it pretty obvious that he's interested in you for something other than friendship
-That you do not find him attractive in any way
-That he has a girlfriend, and has been disrespectful to her by contracting you in this manner
-If he contacts you again in any form, you will contact his girlfriend and explain to her exactly how disrespectful he's been
-Moreover, even if he were single, you are irretrievably disgusted by the fact that he'd be such a two faced apathetic liar to any girl, and will never go out with him no matter what
Proceed to then explain:
-I realize this sounds harsh, and I understand that when feelings are involved, they may be hard to control sometimes
-I don't mean to cause you pain, but your behavior is completely unacceptable and I will not tolerate it
-This letter is to indicate just how serious I am, because my previous rejections were clearly not enough discouragement
Sorry you have to deal with this guy :P Sounds awful...
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I think you have to tell him straight up that what he is doing is bothering you beyond belief and that if he doesn't stop, then you can't be friends anymore. And if he doesn't stop, then you have to follow through and just stop talking to him. Maybe then he will get the point
I would totally end it. Sounds like he's just looking for a booty call. He's clearly not trying to build a legitimate friendship with you. Move on.
i would say`: he has a trashy-persolaity as a friend.
wonder why you call him a friend at all .
i'd stop talking with this guy right away.
I can't stand women who are single who flirt or hang with involved men. find friendships with single men
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Sounds like he's unhealthily obsessed. I'd get rid of him now.
i only read the first two sentences but pretty sure my advice still applies: either just stop being friends with him if he's making you uncomfortable, or flat out ask him why he talks to you like that when he has a girlfriend, and ask him to stop
Just tell him how you truly feel then end the friendship if he continues to talk this way to you.
Grow a backbone and tell him off... have some guts for Christ sakes...
No silent treatment, no leading him on... just flat out tell him "I don't want to be friends with you."... IS IT THAT HARD TO SAY?Yeah I think that is your best bet to end the friendship if you are uncomfortable.
Wow your so hot, I can see why he acts that way around you. What's the big deal?
I would probably just stop talking to the guy lol
He is using you. No friendship here
He wants to cheat. Stop talking to him at night
I would drop him and never speak to him again
"You make me uncomfortable. We can't be friends."
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