Is it ok for a male friend to behave this way?

[Aislinling]

I have a friend who has a girlfriend, he suddenly started texting me every minute everyday, telling me about every small detail going through his day and he asks me what I'm doing.
He waits for me to sleep first even if I stay too late.
Telling me he hopes he's important in my life and he finds me interesting in a way that's scaring him.
He would casually joke about how he loves me and that he'd give me his heart.

I find it suspicious ngl but also I'm afraid I'm reading too much into it bcz he told me he loves his girlfriend.

please tell me what do you think about his behavior.

PS: I consider him as only a casual friend, I am not interested in him as more than a friend.

[spartan55]

Reading too much into it? Dude told you he loves you and would give you his heart... uh where is the confusion. You need to STOP talking to him. And let his girlfriend know what he's been saying. Dude is a snake.

[Aislinling]

I'm confused bcz if he had bad intentions I don't think he'd tell me he loves his girlfriend, no?
I often give him gift ideas for his girlfriend.. etc so I was thinking maybe he's just being friendly.

[spartan55]

You are incredibly naive. Him telling you he loves his girlfriend means nothing. Why is he telling you he loves you? And why aren't shutting that shit down HARD?

[Aislinling]

please don't get me wrong ! I thought he was saying he loves me just out of friendship.
I told him several times that I'm not interested in dating anyone at the moment and I hardly show any emotions.

[spartan55]

Omg... you are really clueless. Would you want your boyfriend talking to another girl like he is to you?
You told him several times you're not interested in dating anyone... okay... so what? You hardly show any emotion? Again, so what? You think you get credit for that?
I think you love the attention, or you would have shut him down already.

[Aislinling]

If I loved the attention I would've just enjoyed it and why bother myself and ask for your opinion sir!
I asked bcz I really don't know how to analyze this situation.
I come from a whole different cultural background and I have no idea how open or friendly people in this country can be.
I appreciate your help sir but please be aware of the way you respond bcz not everyone is aware of others intentions.

Thanks again.

[spartan55]

Well his intention is to get with you. Guaranteed.

[Aislinling]

That's such a shame, I don't know why would people go around playing with others like this.

[spartan55]

That's what shitbags do unfortunately.

[boggboss]

If u are not intrested in him more treat it like a friendship u are interacting with ehat u claim to be too much

[Aislinling]

Should I just stop talking to him? I feel bad for his girlfriend tbh

[boggboss]

That'd your choice do u still see him as a friend

[Aislinling]

I considered him a good friend but after posting this question here I feel totally taken advantage of.
He is using my kindness to cheat over his girlfriend or I don't know what.
I feel like I'm an idiot ngl.

[boggboss]

I would say lay down the law let him know you feel uncomftble with how he was acting and if he was your boyfriend wpuld count how he is acting as cheating after that depending on how he respo ds depends on how the friendship goes

[sheikalana]

He's weird. I would distance myself from him.

[Ironic_Method]

Send it to his girlfriend and let them figure it out.

[In_Trance]

Ask his girlfriend I'm sure she would have an opinion on this

[Aislinling]

Look I have told him that I have someone I love so I really thought it's normal.