Search Results: do guys think about sex

Would you lose interest in your crush if you felt like she was too fixated on sex?

This guy I was seeing claims he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore because I only want sex while he wants a relationship. Do you think it’s bullshit?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m dating a guy who I really like but I can tell he’s not my forever. Do I tell him? What do I do if I don’t want to end it yet?

We’ve been dating for 1-2 months. We hit it off on the first date and can talk non stop when we’re together. I laugh a ton around him and overall I really enjoy him. But I can tell he’s not the one for me, and I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Just shy of third base but no feelings?

Been seeing this girl for like 3 months. On Monday, we kissed for the first time. It was amazing and still feels a little unreal. We made out for a couple hours while cuddling, and she was SO into it. If we both weren't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I’m so confused at this point?

My ex says there are still feelings there and hangs out with me without having sex, which we have had. Told me I can call him on his last break every night for work… I don’t rush it so I just don’t call him during the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I had the talk with my roommate about hooking up after about a month, how do I feel I gain control again after we talked?

My roommate and I hooked up about a month ago, he’s in his 30s I’m in my 20s. It was one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had. He found me after an extremely terrible housing situation fell through and we were talking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, I finally had the talk with my roommate about us hooking up, so how do I feel better and gain back control after I did something I never do?

My roommate and I hooked up about a month ago, he’s in his 30s I’m in my 20s. It was probably one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had. He found me after an extremely terrible housing situation fell through and we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do girls think guys are afraid of commitment but girls don't want relationships?

So I did an experiment where I went are around asking girls if they were single. And if they where I'd ask them if they wanted to be in a relationship. And 100% of the time the girls said no. Now maybe girls are...

chris_987

Yoda Age: 38

What’s his problem? He think I’m trying to use him?

I really liked this guy before I found out he was rich. I had genuine feelings for him and thought about him a lot. My friends even knew how much I liked him. I told him how I felt, but he thinks I'm only interested in...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy I was seeing gave me an STI, and now hasn't talked to me all week?

A guy I've seen about a month texted me on Monday saying he has gonorrhea. It was half my fault, so I can't point fingers or be pissed off, especially because he made it seem like he had just found out and I also chose to...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Is it alright to sexualise when a guy (in talking stage) tells you "I want babies" ?

Hey, I don’t know if I am the problem or it’s just a natural thing to think about sex when a guy tells you he wants to have babies. I was talking to this guy and somewhere in the conversation he said that he loves...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, how would you feel about men competing about being with you?

I'd strictly avoid even making it appear like that, but some other guy seriously first said he had a friend with benefits because she didn't want a relationship. Then he approached another woman telling her he was looking...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

How do you know if the guy you’re on a date with is only interested in sex?

So I got asked out on a date randomly on a day out, I agreed but now I’m worried if he just thinks it’s for a hook up? We haven’t talked much but so far he seems very polite and respectful. What are some clues to...

EmilyMKP

Xper 4 Age: 33

Education & Career

Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend

Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Girls, do girls/women essentially have higher expectations on dating apps of best looking guys, best guys in shape and that's it?

I feel like girls and women don't take dating apps seriously. I understand you need to be attracted to the person. But in this day and age. I think there's no exact formula to talk to a girl or a woman. I understand...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I using someone to get over my ex?

Me and my ex sort of ended stuff but we have a pretty on off relationship. We've been together for 4 years and he was my first. I miss him a lot it hurts just about everyday I'm having a really hard time with moving on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think it makes me transphobic if I don’t want to date a trans guy?

I saw a post on Quora and some people were saying it’s transphobic if you don’t want to date a trans man just because they are trans I’m not scared or have a dislike for trans people. Sex is important for many people in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think my close same sex friend has a huge crush on me?

My friend and I have an emotional connection and we work together. everyone knows we have a bond. We’re both bisexual girls. At my grad party I got really drunk and I kissed her. We made out four times. We both downplayed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you deal with a jealous friend?

My friend and I stopped talking because we discovered she lied about her entire life. She lied about her teaching job and much more. There was a guy who always treated her like crap and always said he didn’t want her. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)