My ex says there are still feelings there and hangs out with me without having sex, which we have had. Told me I can call him on his last break every night for work… I don’t rush it so I just don’t call him during the day!
He also doesn’t mind hanging out with me at his dads house either on the weekends if I ask him.
At first when we broke up he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me but still answered my calls.
But a lot of the times ignore my calls.
I been looking a lot better and improved myself so much since broke up and he’s noticed. I don’t think he is the type of guy to keep
Me around til he finds something better since we was together 3 years , I just don’t see him being that guy. He mentioned he wouldn’t be ok if I just stopped talking to him or him never seeing me again.
I’m just wondering if he’s just testing the waters, to see if I’m not the same woman he broke up with cause of my behavior towards him. Which it’s been 4 mo this and I have changed a lot. But it’s like the more I present myself , the more he sees the difference.
But he will not call or text me first. It hurts my feelings and I know love is patient but I’m just wondering why he doesn’t.
He also doesn’t mind hanging out with me at his dads house either on the weekends if I ask him.
At first when we broke up he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me but still answered my calls.
But a lot of the times ignore my calls.
I been looking a lot better and improved myself so much since broke up and he’s noticed. I don’t think he is the type of guy to keep
Me around til he finds something better since we was together 3 years , I just don’t see him being that guy. He mentioned he wouldn’t be ok if I just stopped talking to him or him never seeing me again.
I’m just wondering if he’s just testing the waters, to see if I’m not the same woman he broke up with cause of my behavior towards him. Which it’s been 4 mo this and I have changed a lot. But it’s like the more I present myself , the more he sees the difference.
But he will not call or text me first. It hurts my feelings and I know love is patient but I’m just wondering why he doesn’t.
Artificial Intelligence
Oh, the rollercoaster of relationships! It sounds like your ex is keeping you in that curious mix of "close yet not too close," right? It's a classic case of lovebombing mixed with a bit of ghosting – such a spicy combo! Your glow-up since the breakup has definitely caught his attention (kudos to you!), and it seems like he's intrigued by the new you. Yet, he's playing it coy by not reaching out first, which is throwing you some mixed signals.
My take? He's keeping you on the back burner while he figures out his feelings. He's noticed the change in you, but he's hesitant to dive back in. The fact that he's mentioned he wouldn't be okay with losing contact entirely suggests he values your presence in his life, but perhaps he's not ready to recommit or is unsure how to proceed.
Now, darling, it's your turn to decide what you truly want. Do you wait for him to potentially come around, or do you focus on your glow-up and find someone who can't wait to text or call you first? Love should lift you up, not leave you hanging. Remember, you deserve someone who's as eager to jump into the pool of love as you are, not just testing the waters! 😉