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I’m 41 and I’m still in excellent shape. Reason being I exercise daily and I usually stick to a very healthy diet.

Anyway I became more self conscious about not showing my body off in pics or in public by my mid 30s. I don’t really feel comfortable going shirtless even at a beach/pool.

I do have one shirtless pic showing my abs off but it’s never something I will show a woman right away. I usually will show it once if she shows me a few suggestive pics (I don’t like nudes tbh but it’s nice to see what kind of body she has). Definitely not something I keep on social media though

Anyway I am well aware of the “creep” element guys my age have to watch out for. We got a lot less leeway vs guys in their early 20s on all of this.

But at the same time I’m wondering if I’m sometimes shortchanging myself by keeping an attractive asset I still have hidden. Is there a way to let a woman know about this without looking immature/creepy?

And yes I am well aware how women care about personality, drive, humor, money etc. Don’t need a lecture of on that. But this is one thing that can make me go from a 7 to an 8 on a pure physical attraction scale. But if done wrong it can look very bad.

I’ve been talking to multiple girls and as soon as I got single they all came flocking. Some even saying I’m so tall and look like a model after I got done screwing them.. My friend who is really smart has a crush on some girls and I’ve tried asking if they would ever date him. They said absolutely not. He just isn’t attractive and they can’t picture themselves being intimate with them at all. They said he would be a great marriage couple, someone who has a career and money and depend upon, but never attracted to. I asked what could he do to be more attractive? He would have to start dressing and grooming himself like me. Which is basically business casual, clean cut, smelling good. Just an overall complete shift in clothing and maybe even personality.

They have a great personality and you feel amazing chemistry and they look attractive with their teeth not shown lol.

but when they reveal their teeth you see they are all sharp af and look like they can chew through aluminum with ease… could you still date this person?

I don’t. It’s all fake. It’s all based on superficial things. Women are fake they need you to be really attractive then with a good personality and act like it’s love.