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27F, it’s odd and just unlucky considering most women don’t have to bat an eye when it comes to dating. I’ve been on and off the apps for years, I’ve recently come to point where I just put minimal effort. Minimal as in sending a message 2-3 days max and swiping on profiles maybe every other week. I’ve spent so much time asking myself what’s wrong with me, even lost and maintained my weight loss over the years and can’t attract a guy I’d want. I get attention and likes but it’s the unrequited/only want hookups/they like me I don’t like them situation. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with me, I have a low sex drive but that’s more common for women vs men. I find it odd that I couldn’t attract a decent guy where it’s reciprocated and the rest falls into place. Dating apps were my only outlet, I don’t have friends. Atm I’m on hinge, which I’ve heard is one of the better apps. My mom tells me I just haven’t found the right one and maybe that’s the case but can’t help but wonder if there’s more to it? Maybe not

Ok I find out that so many women and female relatives in my surroundings got plastic surgery despite being married. I dont understand why they did it since their husbands accept them, otherwise they would not marry them. My mum tell me that they did it to still attract their husbands. So the husbands dont loose their attraction for their wifes. In my mum's opinion women should take care of her appearance and if it is necassary, they should get plastic surgery, in order to make their husbands to not cheat on them. In my opinion both men and women should take care of their appearance. However, I am curious whether men really loose attraction for their wifes to the point women have to get plastic surgery. I still can't believe that so many women in my surroundings have plastic surgery which is scary. We find out about it after my aunt wanted to have plastic surgery and needed advices by other women who got nose job, jaw line surgery etc.