I have met plenty of women. All types, shapes, colours, sizes, personalities...
Sometimes their unique beauty really makes their aura stand out to me and that can cause a subconscious nervous thing to happen.
I am a very confident person by nature, and I have good reason to be...I am tall, healthy, well educated, ambitious, creative, and a winner... but with some women I trip over my words, and probably appear quite awkward (at first! only at first). My "text game" is also probably bad because I hate texting and don't like playing games.
Some women might like that. Some women might think that means I am not confident.
It is a funny one because, I know that if I trip over my words its because I am definitely attracted to them. A shallow minded woman might see this as a turn off. But I have met women who seem to find it even more attractive..
I also suck at texting and hate game playing. I treat people with maximum respect, and so I don't like it when I am being left in the dark. Ghosting is the lamest invention of the 21st century.
Because I don't do well texting, I have had my fair share of being ghosted by women who, in person, seemed very attracted to me. So, I would much rather use the initial texting to quickly set up a plan to meet in person again. (I never use dating apps, so we have always already met in person).
Girls, what is your take? Do you like the subtle awkwardness ? Can you tell when a guy actually finds you very attractive? Imagine we don't yet know what each other does for a living. We only know there was an initial charismatic in-person attraction and bonded over something small and present.
What Girls Said
I think a little awkwardness is cute honestly.