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How does a dismissive avoidant feel when break up ends on bad terms?

I’m just learning about attachment styles and had no idea this guy i was dating was a dismissive avoidant. We tried to end things amicably but his lack of self awareness and emotional intelligence was the worst. I called...
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Should I give my (ex) boyfriend a chance?

Me and my boyfriend (20 and 21) had been toghether for 6 months. We rushed into a relationship and shit became bad with lots of miscommunication and misunderstandings. He meant good for me but his methods were real bad....
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Am I a bad friend for not lending my friend money?

I used to work at government and I have a friend there who I met and we still talk till this day I got fired from that job and the only friend I only talk to there is she up to this day. Now I work as admin assistant at...
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How do I tell my boyfriend about his hygiene without hurting his feelings or causing him to feel pushed away from me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 2 months now. We do not live together yet, however we see each other like twice a week but text literally everyday. He’s such a loyal, devoted, and funny man. He’s...
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Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?

I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...
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Is it selfish to pray for God to end your life?

I recently lost my mother 3 years ago to cancer at just 52 and her and I were VERY close. She was everything to me she was like a big sister, best friend, etc and I I've had no other friends because I never met any...
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Why are PAP Smears so painful?

I've heard they are uncomfortable, but mine was far from uncomfortable! I almost passed out! I am used to pain and feeling crappy daily (migraines, dysmenorrhea, IBS), but that shit hurt like hell! Later that evening I...
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How bad is this? is it common to hit yourself so bad when you are upset?

I never realized i had anger issues until now that im in a serious relationship. I get hurt easily and when im hurt i get so mad. Today my boyfriend of two years was at my place when we had a fight. He left and went home....
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Boyfriend never stops teasing me (especially embarrassing moments) and brings them up constantly? Is this just affection or making fun of me?

I've been having a real bad cough lately and it's really hard to suppress. On top of that, my stomach was really hurting the other day and it was because of what my boyfriend cooked for us. I am lactose intolerant and I...
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Guys, how would you feel if you find out you hurt a girl till she cry?

She didn't cry infront of you, but for god knows, you manage to find out she cried because of you, how do you feel? If i ever find out i have made a guy cry, i would deadass feel guilty asffff. I would hate myself and...
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Generally what's the timeframe to become a man's fiancee and then wife?

I was once stuck on the ''forever girlfriend'' position until leaving the station that won't advance nor take you to your destination. With my current man, I'm a fiancee after 16 months. Well this counts from the time we...
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Is it really the owner's fault all the time when a dog gets out of control?

What if the owner really tried everything to keep the dog out of the fence, raised it since it was a puppy, provided it care and loved, never abused it nor neglected but still turned out bad and unstable. I'm afraid to...
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A debate now, is it bad to answer like this?

Imagine you are at a campus, you invite your friend to sit at the common area before class start Then your friend say “Oh, you can go to the common area, i’ll go to the class first”.. Will you get hurt by such statement?...
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Question about love?

so my boyfriend said him and his ex didn’t work out because of family issues. now he says i have family issues. i just expressed to him i didn’t think it was that bad that he’d even state I have family issues which it’s...
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Going through a break up whilst in a relationship?

So I know I’m going 2 gt lots of hate, honestly don’t waste your tym I’ve neva been the type to care wht others think so unless it’s helpful 2 my recovery I won’t be acknowledging. I’m currently in a 15 year marriage&...
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Is it normal that everything is a bit awkward when you first start dating a new person?

I am 29. Have been in a relationship for 9 years from 17-26. Now I have been 3 years not dating and just enjoying my time alone and as single. Recently I started looking again and was very lucky to have found a woman...
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Why would a person burn a bridge when you’re trying to make amends and see if things are okay?

This person, who I thought was my friend, had been continually violating boundaries and saying things that are untrue about me. I was starting to feel like I may have hurt their feelings accidentally so I called them to...
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How do I stop people trying to gossip with me?

I love a little abit of gossip and drama when I'm not involved but it isn't good for my soul and get myself in trouble because I speak my mind. for example i stayed respectful towards these people and still talk but just...
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