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I’m not a simp. I was a genuine “nice guy” to women when I was younger but I got brutalized for it one too many times. I grew much more callous over the years and developed a radar for bs.

I also had a few controlling women feel confident that I would their “whipped” man. However to their surprise I proved them wrong pretty quickly and got out it fast.

Anyway if I determine if a woman has no respect for me I will cut off all association with them and never turn back. I might cut her some slack in the beginning and take a while to get to that decision. But once I make my decision I will stick with it. I will never understand women like a Don Juan but I can figure it out quickly nowadays if they respect me or not. I rather be a loner than a chump. I rather be by myself and still have self respect.

But I have a deep devil’s advocate question here. I have a few friends and family members who tolerate more abuse from their wives than they should. But they still have their marriages, companionship and sex.

Can it be worth it for some guys to be trapped in this situation given they still have a woman? I expect a resounding no response (and that’s my response as well). But it could it be the lesser of two evils?