How a man can love another woman after 20 y. marriage?

[Anonymous]

How is it posible tbat a man falls in love with another woman while being married for the past 20 years and 1 kid

And later saying , now ex wife, was the most important person in his life

How its posible that this man while living with that woman falls for another one who regects him for like 6 months and he never stops trying

Ho can you fall in love while being married

[inhua]

men don't fall in love with another woman that easily. it takes time and is usually a long slow process. if a man leaves his woman immediately for another woman, it's likely due to lust and not actual love

[Curmudgeon]

Sadly, this happens. But that is why REAL love is a commitment, not just "the feelings", which come and go and change with age, time, and any given situation.

[Asker]

So what kind of comittment is that?
He wants badly another woman, won't stop doesn't wanna stop until he gets what he wants -Her
But his wife is at home

[Curmudgeon]

I didn't say what he was doing was right or proper, mind you, it isn't. But it reads like he only had "the feels" rather than a real deep down bona fide love commitment. Maybe he never could - some people can't I think.

[ProbablyClueless]

People who leave marriages like that tend to have been losing their feelings for awhile. The break up is sudden for you, but it was probably years in the making for him.

[Asker]

Im the lover

[ProbablyClueless]

Many "other people" find themselves in your position. The married person usually starts dating the lover as a bandage, not because they actually saw a future with them. Once they get out of their marriage and see the reality of a life with the other, they lose interest. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[TonyMetal___86]

It seems that he wasn't in a happy marriage and there are a lot of other possible reasons...
Personally when i love a girl and if we get married, i'll love only her forever and will never see another woman because marriage is eternal!

[EaterPeter]

Wrong values? Habit of going after wrong things. He may have not been validated for long enough so he needs whole lot of validations. After divorce whole new world opened again and he is going crazy now.

[SnowedIn]

It is easily possible to love two people at once.

[In_Trance]

people grow apart

[Anonymous]

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