Is it difficult for a woman to find a man who loves her after she is over 30?

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Why is it so hard for a woman after 30 to find a man who can accompany her for the rest of her life

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Some other answers talk about your looks. I focus less on that because there are women who are 25 and look really rough & used up. And you can find women who are 60 who look amazing and put most 30s to shame. But life isn't all about looks. When it comes to a guy taking you SERIOUSLY... it takes way more than looks. Looks are just the icing on the cake.

Maybe not exactly on your 30th birthday but at some point: Yes, but the reason why is that if a woman didn't bother to look for a 'forever' relationship before her 30s she was doing other things that make her less desirable like:

*acting masculine

*having too many boyfriends/broken relationships

*placing career ahead of family.

Now you may say, 'why does this matter?'. The best guy for a 'forever' relationship is a traditional minded guy. After all, women expect/want the benefits of a traditional relationship. Just many women today also expect the guy to get little to no traditional benefits from the woman. Quality guys realize this and don't like the math/balance so they aren't going to spend time on non-traditional or women who have too little traditional ideas in them. The older you get without ever bothering to focus on a traditional situation, the less likely you're actually suited for a traditional relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For a lot yes. There is an exception to that. I’m not saying you’ll never find someone, your chances are just slimmer as you get older. Especially if you don’t want children or marriage. A lot of men want children, they want their legacy to live. They also want marriage. Now if you have children but don’t want more than your chances are even slimmer. Men don’t look at women’s kids from another man the same way they look at kids from another man. You look gorgeous that’s for sure, I doubt you’d have trouble finding someone to date you, but would they take you seriously. Sure there are plenty of worn out there who still look gorgeous in their 30’s, but are they in a happy relationship? Are they even w someone? No we aren’t trying to get back at women as one person pointed out. It’s a biological thing. Men aren’t interested in your career or how much money you make, again that’s a female things a lot of women look at. Men don’t look at that. If that’s what they’re interested in then she needs to kick his ass to the curb.

menina · Accepted Answer

If it is, then I'm screwed Lol

But seriously, I don't think it's difficult. You might have less options since men over 30 are mostly taken, but it's not impossible. As long as you take care of yourself (mentally and physically) and you know what you want, you should be fine.

Good luck! :)

cryscrys1 · Accepted Answer

That not true for women same goes for men too. Let’s say if I’m 35 I don’t want a 45 years old men or very old. If you still look good and take care of your body you can find love with a younger men !

Guy13 · Answer

If I was seriously considering a 30 year old woman, before the criminal and credit reports checks, I would want a written statement defining, comparing, and contrasting the 20-27 Lady to the 27-Present Lady in all ways... Who was I/Purpose then and Who am I know/Purpose now. What is your Vision and the pieces that make it up?

How does this strike you?

Avicenna · Answer

It’s not that hard, what’s hard is finding a man she thinks is worthy of her and who loves her

HighValue · Answer

It is difficult for her to find a GOOD man once she is past 30. As a good man that still wants kids, I have no interest in a woman once she is past 30. Anyone that claims biology doesn't affect a kids health when the mother had them after she was older is lying. Older women having kids is one of the primary causes of learning disabilities in kids.

My advice is to find someone within the next year based on your current age, otherwise the quality of your potential mates will GREATLY decrease. Ultimately, YOU are the one that has to live with the consequences of your decisions, so be careful who's advice you follow.

oddwaffle · Answer

#1 Most of the low hanging fruits got taken. What? The other girls also seeking too... since decades ago. Any decent guy would be taken already.

#2 You are left with guys no girl would settle for and hidden guys no girl could find. Ignoring the first group, finding guys girls failed to find before is like looking for a submarine in the sea.

#3 Most guys who managed to cruise around at his late 30s and 40s are comfortable with themselves. Chances of them opening up for a girl to come in is rare.

You are pretty by the way.

eagleboss09 · Answer

Well doesn't really matter that much 20-30 woman still not hit the wall what matter on that age is the body count and what value she brings beside the good appearance is she feminine is she loyal good cooker trustable? All woman have vagina but they're different men are awaking and want valuable things not only sex. Feminism and 1 night stands ruined woman generally. Personally quit the dating game because most girls have that idea all men are cheater so they cheat even if you're loyal they're like it will happen anytime so she will do it first it's very difficult to change a woman men are different the hookup culture ruined woman

John_Doesnt · Answer

Because you most likely dumped a lot of guys when you were young because they weren't making enough money. Now those guys are grown up and making huge salaries, they're not gonna settle for a 30 year old when they could easily get a 20 year old.

Adaeva · Answer

She is well past her prime years of 18 to 24. However, there are plenty of fat middle age men earning $40,000 to $50,000 per year that would love to have an attractive woman in her low thirties.

Messianic_Monk · Answer

from my position, I'd say you look great. And I'd say that it is not difficult for you to find somebody. But you might need to make some tradeoffs.

dustybiker · Answer

You meet new people every day. This is a ridiculous idea created by people originally needing to sell magazines. They made it up.

Haha456 · Answer

no. its just the bitter, sad, jaded man trying to get back at women for rejecting him. Most women marry and have kids after the age of 30.

kevypatyy7 · Answer

I don't think its difficult nowadays coz we see a lot of women even in their forties getting married.

It's the decision of the woman to get out and start dating because many men found women in their thirties even more sensible

Anonymous · Answer

Women under 30 have unlimited options in dating, they don't wanna date average to ugly guys. It's not exactly 30 but if the women lose looks as they age, the men they rejected while young will go for younger ones. As women age thy don't wanna date those bad boys anymore too if they still wanna do that then there are plenty of bad boys over 30.

exitseven · Answer

It is said that a woman has a better chance of being killed by a terrorist than finding a husband once she turns 30. I think finding somebody who is 30 would be a good find.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, it is difficult. Because there's a point at which women stop looking young and they start looking old. Most men don't want to START a relationship with an old or middle-aged woman. They prefer to BEGIN the relationship when she's younger.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

As a 30 year old woman whose been single over six years, I can confirm dating in your 30's is nigh on impossible.

sheikalana · Answer

I think is quite the opposite. If you usually date guys the same age as you or older they usually tend to want stable relationships.

genericname85 · Answer

well that depends. if she's fat with several children and multiple failed marriages, that wille very difficult for her. if she's without children and attractive, that should not be a problem.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I think that’s such an American cliché and doesn’t apply for most of the countries. 🤔

Luopio27 · Answer

Most women above 50 I have met, even the overweight ones have been and still are married. The only reason Im still single and almost 40 is because Im shallow as hell. Most are not like me.

t_time · Answer

It's hard for anyone to find a man or a woman these days. It's hook up culture now unfortunately

TDDMS · Answer

I'm having a hard time believing you are having trouble finding a man. You're cute and in shape.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

If She knows me, not at all. I don’t believe in age. I dated several women older than 30, and some women who’d be over 30 currently.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Because in 10 years she will be 40 and infertile. In 5 years getting pregnant will be a high risk. Vs a 25 yr old, in 5 years she will be 30. Which is acceptable.

Anonymous · Answer

I think women just have fewer options at that age. They are much wiser to use the power they have in their 20s to find a mate while they have more options.

ZoeyMercer · Answer

You’re gorgeous so don’t worry about it

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she doesn't adapt. Women start to lose thier biggest bargaining chip after 30. As long as a woman over 30 realizes it and acts accordingly she'll be ok. If not, sucks to be her. 🤣🤣🤣

AsaKyo · Answer

Men like young women mainly, but anyone can find anyone, I guess

tfan1 · Answer

I don’t believe it is that difficult to find someone 🙂👍

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Only if she had higher standards. If she lowers her standards to include betas simps and ugly men then she should be fine.

Anonymous · Answer

I date Asian women who are in their 40s and they're still hot to me.

Snedger____ · Answer

If you're as beautiful as in the pic, you could find a lot of men

Likes2drive · Answer

Not really, at least not being the USA, that’s still young

Nigjt · Answer

Ur just not talking to the right Men or ur expectations are too high. God Bless

Pohjolan · Answer

Hard as in just wallflowering not being enough to attract men that are busy with their life?

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

You are Asian so no, y'all dont age bad like our American women

Songomatic · Answer

These plastic dolls i hear are the solutions to the problem

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Im 32 but look like 22 I date a guy who is 42 So...

MisterTee · Answer

Not at all. You're a beautiful woman. Do you think it's hard for a man to find love after 30?

Anonymous · Answer

No. Quite the opposite if she can carry herself 🥰 such lovely ladies.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

I don't think so.

Agape93 · Answer

Not really, and you're cute, you'll do fine

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

All about Mindset

Kabluie · Answer

It's not, 30 is prime age and a great time.

Anonymous · Answer

Harder, but definitely possible.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it actually becomes easier.

Paul09 · Answer

For a woman not so much. For a man yes.

Fleet7635 · Answer

Not at all especially with how attractive you are

Twalli · Answer

Most people want kids.

nawtee_me · Answer

Would you like to go out?

jimmy2 · Answer

Not at all you still young

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