MOUNT SEXISM
Did you know that most nice guys aren't submissive? Ah, mind blown.
Allow me to be stereotypical for a moment — they know they are beta and they want women even less than them.
My radical feminist bestie and I were discussing this the other day. As a liberal one, I don't agree 100%, especially to comments like they need to up their game or something, like what does that even mean, the world is not your local bar, geez.
I just have trouble with nice guys being extra mean to their women. Like, they'd feel flattered if a girl with modeling career wanted to go out with them, but they would find them repulsive on magazine covers because well, their equally nice friends are making vulgar comments and that's not something a manly man can tolerate.
Forget the fact that he's friends with perverts or before he got with her he used to pass all kinds of colorful remarks himself on Instagram and trying to flirt with random hot ladies. Forget the fact that she might be posing suggestively on the cover or showing a little too much skin — she hasn't physically cheated on him, but she should feel ashamed because he wants her to be.
It's very sexist when a nice guy dates a bad bi_tch and tries to fix her. That's the male equivalent of "I can fix him, I can make him change his player ways and quit ab_usive behaviour and drinking problems".
Women's careers are just not as important, I know at least one of you has that on their tip of the tongue, ready to spite.
A career means earning money for your family.
— sincerely, a conservative
Which is all fine and good. But if that's your sole reason for working, I feel sorry for you. Capitalism is mean. Not to mention the fast depletion of resources and your refusal to back down. I wish people's ambition and passion were more in demand, but with this growing tras_h, I don' think so!
I wouldn't want to live long to see the day where human beings fully dominate the planet. Other species can su_ck my ti_t, we rule this because we have brains, we just don't wanna use them.
Now coming to the alpha. Because according to incels, men can only be categorised into two types : toxic and basic.
So this alpha, which is like 10 percent and on the top of this world, earning mouth watering six digit figures. What do they want? A capable woman. Code, has my babies to pass my empire off, is a slut in the bedroom and perfect wife in the parties, submissive, virgin probably although he's not one, keeps his family happy etc etc.
He'll still cheat on her. Seven out of ten times.
Because A, he's still weak to the advances of a gold digger or office slut. He's a man, fuelled by a bucket of testosterone. It doesn't mean he doesn't love her. He only did it because he couldn't help himself. It's the other woman's fault, seriously.
And B, he'd never allow her to work. Because, a cheater thinks everyone's capable of cheating.
And he's probably wasted his twenties on girls and expensive hobbies. Because he's nepo kid.
Or say, if he's self made man, he'd probably have a girlfriend he treats like a queen but would only marry the one his parents picked. That's just how it is, and has been for decades.
It's why "rich boys are heartless" is an actual trope, an aesthetic one at that.
Nothing wrong with arranged marriages — but the least you can do is inform your current girlfriend that you guys are a casual thing.
This is when it gets interesting.
The "he loves her so much he'll burn the moon and make star jewellery from actual stars but he's jerk and let's call that misunderstanding" trope.
Also known as "he only hits her because he loves her". And antifeminist will say, "he only did it because she provoked him" which is debatable — you should never hit ANYONE, if they do something against your wishes, you can always break up. Violence will never teach her her place. Period. No such thing as "her words hurt him" either like, dude, don't sla_p her just insult her back. Lmao.
So anyway — the popularity of men who can't express their real feelings, so embarrassed they hide behind a shield of hostility. Which is, I get it, some people are just the way they are.
That's cool. Even I'm closed off mostly. Makes sense.
But there's a fine line between cold and mean. If you're mean — you're a lo_ser who's supposed to end up alone. Period.
It's one thing to say "all women are the same" and keep yourself away from them — that's cold. It's another to say the above line and still hookup with half the population of Canada, because, surprise surprise you got needs — you can mast_urbate but would that be manly enough? I wonder.
I guess that's what they call duality of men. They can hate women and still want them.
by anon1903
PS. mansplaining comments will be removed. If you don't want to read these Feminism takes, then don't. Simple.
I wish people were more concerned about being perceived as humanly than their "manliness", but that's a tall order I suppose.
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