Search Results: guys look for in a girl

Do girls/women find it hot when their boyfriend or a good looking random boy/man in their age-range wants to armwrestle them and then beats them?

Do girls/women specifically mentally connect thinking it's hot to lose to a boy/man in armwrestling to the fact whether they're interested in him or not? Also, what would be the girls/women's favorite way to get defeated...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Girls, Do you use dating Apps to hook up? Which do you use? What do you look for in a guy?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some girls and women always push guys or men that like them AWAY?

Like say this guy or man that’s liked a woman for YEARS but the lady doesn’t notice or pays any attention to them. They always chase after guys that are no good or don’t like them back. I understand they have no feelings...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I get involved?

I know this guy, he has a girlfriend but he’s chasing after another girl who has a boyfriend. He says he is serious about this girl he is chasing after. It is causing him stress and making him overthink. He really likes...

Nachos28

Xper 3 Age: 28

Should I do? Is it racially motivated? Im 19 and I think she’s in her 30-40’s?

Im a light skinned black girl same tone as Doja Cat. This Asian lady at my job often stares at me. Its a few Asians, few Hispanic. It mostly white and black people but more black people. Its about over 500 at our job why...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is it so easy for non-white women to overlook RED FLAGS of white men?

I remember on this very site, there was a female user from Trinidad, who said she looked down on local men and went into the arms of white men (many of whom were foreigners). The end result was that she got used for sex...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, do you really like this?

I see these women, and they are beautiful, yes, but almost everything about them is fake. They wear 3 layers of makeup. Fake eyelashes, fake lips, fake hair, fake boops, fake nails. Everything painted on, or stuck on or...

CorneliaUSA

Xper 3 Age: 39

Guys, for dating, do you want a girl who lacks self-confidence, is quietly confident, or a girl who is arrogant and cocky?

AKA "Ice Queen" Guys, when you are on the prowl, looking for a potential dating partner, do you want to find a girl who has low self-confidence, because she will try harder to please you, quiet self-confidence, because it...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

AKA "Ice Queen" Guys, when you are on the prowl, looking for a potential dating partner, do you want to find a girl who has low self-confidence, because she will try harder to please

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How to respond when someone tries to belittle you?

I was at the gym recently and this guy in his late fifties that I barely speak to was attempting to pick up this good looking married girl in her thirties. I’m social with her and really like her as a gym friend. Now,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I told a guy I liked something and he made it about himself. Was it wrong of me to ghost/block him?

hiya back a few years ago i met this guy through a xbox game, we had a few rounds and after the game he sent me a message request, saying stuff like “your cute, but your not good at the game”. we ended up joking around,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why would my friends hook me up with a fat guy just because I’m an overweight girl?

I have never had a boyfriend in my life. Guys would NOT look my way or give me the time of day. Guys I like always liked the slimmer or fit girls. It’s always the cute, hot girls that get the guys. My friends are shorter...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone that wouldn’t give you the time of day when you were obese/overweight?

I had a crush in high school and I was obsessed with him for years. Years! I dreamed that he was my boyfriend and the love of my life. Unfortunately he was so mean to me and my special needs friends. My friends didn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I survive in this generation?

So I am a guy that is a little different from most guys in my circles and my age. I don’t like to hookup as I really need a relationship and if I were to which I could’ve done a couple times recently. I would either feel...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Should I just ignore her since 10/10 it won’t work anyway?

She stood next to me like right next to me we were waiting to clock into work everyone else is in line besides me and couple other people. So I see her and another girl start to smile and it’s like the other girl knew...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do most men go for some very particular women?

Going anonymous to avoid conflicts. Don't get me wrong seeing the question, I'm not asking out of jealousy. However, I have a childhood friend who is extremely popular among guys. It's like they'd do anything to get her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, is she being friendly or more than?

I've been trying to figure her out, she seems fairly outgoing so it's difficult to tell. She first came up to me at the bar and started chatting. She wanted to exchange numbers with me before the end of the night. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

What’s the point of trying to lose weight when thick is in or people are trying to gain weight nowadays?

All of my life, I’ve been a bigger girl. I was a thick child, a chubby/fat teenager and I’m a chubby curvy woman. I lost weight before but I gained the weight back. Some of my relatives didn’t like that I was losing...

Anonymous

(25-29)