hiya
back a few years ago i met this guy through a xbox game, we had a few rounds and after the game he sent me a message request, saying stuff like “your cute, but your not good at the game”. we ended up joking around, gaming again. I never saw this romantic or even flirted with him, as i wasn’t interested and just wanted to play the game.
there were heaps of times he initiated stuff and every time i shut him down and friendzoned him. I stopped talking to him for a long time, then over the last month he came around and acted super weird, we were having a friendly conversation and during that he asked have i been playing games much (i moved away from xbox consoles and play on pc now). I mentioned a game I've been playing and how i have a crush on one of the characters on the game (its harmless, the character is fictional 🤣). When i told this guy about it, he first used a filter to make him look like the character, he even went onto CHATGPT and got it to edit photos of himself into looking like my character crush and sent them to me and said “this is waiting for you”, “what would you do if i turned up to your place of work dressed like him?”. It weirded me out so much and i felt so uncomfortable, i never said a word and just blocked him. I never explained how it made me feel or anything, just went straight to the block button. I was then on Facebook and he tried to add me on another account and i blocked that too. I feel bad for not explaining why i blocked him, but my friend said “dont feel bad, you told him about something you liked and he made it about himself. Thats a BIG red flag, girl”. I've never had this happen to me before, guys I've spoken to have been kinda normal 🤣
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He is doing too much I am not a fan of blocking people but you didn't even tell him I don't like this stop doing all this and all that so that he knows his boundaries but you just showed sign instead some guys don't understand clues but straight forwardness and if he doesn't stop then you will be proud to block him across all social platforms without guilt
I felt terrible for not saying anything (as i have been ghosted without a explanation and sometimes it kinda makes you feel awful). But the first time he did it (with the character filter) i said “okay dude, this is kinda weird” and he blew it off and said “why? Its what you want isn't it?”. Then he went further with making more and more AI edits of himself as said character. Saying the stuff i mentioned above (at that point i wasn't talking to him) and he just kept going. That was when i blocked him, he searched me up on facebook and tried to add me (i knew it was him, as he went by his actual name online). I have shut him down countless of times (over him trying so hard to get me as a girlfriend, i wasn't interested), but he never took my shutdowns seriously and just kept trying and trying. This was really the last straw with me, with the edits. I just straight up blocked him on everything, it just gave me super creepy vibes 🥲
No, you weren't. Avoid such people.