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@LaFemmeFatale_1 asked me something about my love life earlier… and it actually stuck with me and made me think…

I’ve known someone for a long time. He’s intelligent, funny, has depth… but opening up has always been a slower process for him. It’s something that unfolds over time…. Like a really long time. We started out as just friends and then we decided to try something more…

And then there’s someone I met more recently…

We could barely communicate at first because of the language barrier lol, but somehow we kept gravitating back to each other… laughing, losing track of what we were doing like it just flowed naturally. I actually posted about him some months ago and you guys were sharing with me how you’ve dated someone who spoke another language primarily.

What stood out to me though… was the effort. And even emotionally… he didn’t rush it, but he didn’t avoid it either.

He told me:

“De nada, con gusto… es bueno saber un poco y te diré poco a poco.” (I’ll tell you more little by little.) …And he did.

He’s also the guy I was talking about when I posted about going on a date.. and asking you guys whats a good first date… anyway..

That made me question something… because I feel like we tend to assume history means more.

But what if someone new is showing you more intention?

So what matters more to you in the end?

So a good friend of mine assigned me as godmother to her younger daughter…. and I baptized her as Greek Orthodox……my boyfriend came to the ceremony and he has chipped in for gifts and made the effort to drive up to her place…. he’s always caring and asking about her as well….

So last weekend my friend snapped at my boyfriend and told him she gets very ticked off when he doesn’t ask about both her daughters and that he’s not the godfather and not even Christian ( he’s Jewish)

Was this rude of my friend?
My boyfriend is very offended with her…. to the post where he’s wanting N apology otherwise he’s done with her…. what should I do? How can I address this to my friend without hurting her?