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Long story short, have an internet friend whom I met first time recently. Her and I talked for a few years, live long distance (other countries, though her family comes from the same area my family comes from).

Anyway, she has social anxiety, self critical etc, but we got along very well. I do like her too and would like to get to know her better.

I was thinking of sending her a letter and telling her it's a letter full of positive energy, that way whenever she has a bad day/rough time she can always read it since it's full of positive energy.

The last day we met I was suppose to throw a coin into a fountain and make a wish but we got side tracked and forgot to do that. So I was going to tape that coin on the letter and say it's the energy, or the "wish" I never got to make, so I am sending her the energy.

Anyway, should I? Or will it be inappropriate?

Explain why/why not

Kids can be rough on stuff especially when they don't know how to manage their emotions. They are kids and learning, but they need to know the cost of what they do. Do you make them cleanup, pay up, or repair what they break? How do you discipline them so they learn right/wrong.

Another aspect of this is... littering, discarding things that are vaulable... wasting materials.. ex. some kids will waste paper towels, waste bottled water, waste expensive food, etc.. They don't think of the cost.

That stuff bugs me... we work on our kids constantly so they value what they have.

One of the problems in society is the lack of training... lack of discipline. It's a huge problem passed onto adults in rules/enforcement roles and setting kids up for failure.