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This is a long story, you don't have to read it/

So yesterday I went to go see Dune 2 in theatres, I was by myself. As I'm watching the movie a woman behind me starts kicking my chair, I respond by taking out my phone and shining it directly in her face. She keeps kicking my chair throughout the movie and so I turn to face her husband who I confronted.

I asked him if he could stop kicking my chair. His wife raises her hand and says no it was me, so I then politely ask her to stop kicking my chair. I turn around and a few seconds later her husband taps me on the shoulder and asks if I could sit forward so his wife has more space for her feet.

At this point me and him start arguing while the movie is playing and the people around us can hear everything. I escalate things by shouting things like f you, f you and your wife, he leans forward and asks me if I want to fight, voice is very soft when he asks me this so I know he's a b. I turn to his wife and say your husband's a b and then turn around and continue watching the movie without interruption from him.

A young guy around my age in a group next to me then decides to confront me, he says "that's weird" how could you say that to a man etc. etc. Me and the young guy start exchanging insults. I say f you, call him a psyy and a pansi and continue watching the movie.

At the end of the movie as I'm going down the stairs I turn around say f you and ask him if he wants to fight I'll be waiting outside. I wait for his answer, and when he's quite I say "no?" He say's I have no friends with me and that he feels sorry for me because I went to a movie by myself. I say "f you I'm rich, tomorrow you go back to your sty as job and your sty as house, im rich f you". This is a crowded theatre and honestly it's kind of funny how nobody else said anything as we were shouting at each other. He stays quite and I walk away.

I have no respect and It might be a problem.

Maybe I should get a therapist, I'm out of touch

In my experience once a woman decides she can do this the only option is to cut her off and never look back. No amount of scolding and anger will ever change her mind. You have to show her you are ready to walk and mean it.

That’s a depressing option because a part of you is hoping she really respects you but you have to accept she doesn’t (which is a blow to your ego). It especially sucks if you put in the time, money, effort getting to know her.

But there is no substitute for self respect. It’s always better to be alone and have self respect vs. sticking around just to be exploited.

I have had to do this to a few women in recent years. While not all women take kindness for weakness there are unfortunately a few women who will take all they can from nice guys and not feel an ounce of guilt/remorse about it. These women will actively seek out men to do this to as well. They will accept “dates” from guys like this despite having no physical attraction to them. You always have to have your guard up about that unfortunately.

It’s partially due to evolution. There was a time in history where women completely depended on men for their survival. So if a man could provide help/resources and a woman didn’t have to do anything in return she would happily take him up on it.

However this is also due to our “modern” society. Women are not being taught to respect men but to instead indulge their own interests with no after thought.

But anyway have any you guys ever drawn the line on a woman who acted this way and have her do a 180 on her behavior? I find that once a woman thinks she “has” you she will never change her outlook on you unless she really needs something from you.