i fucked up. So, i went up to her and asked her the clique retail question of “what time do you close today. She say ten. i say are you here until then? She say no. i genuinely forget what i said tbh and well, she say should i call security and i say no. (While i understand this sounded disrespectful in my part and it didn’t look as i wasn’t scared of her.) i say to her why are you being mean? She definitely put me on the spot when i wasn’t even trying to harass her or anything. i asked for her number and she say are you filming, i say no and even had my phone in my hand. i have a pink phone case since Last year too. So, i even offered her my number on a piece of paper and she didn’t want this. i then realised, the online viral moment definitely traumatised her to a degree and she didn’t seem please with me at all. i then as a guy took responsibility and apologised. i sensed a accent in her voice and asked her where is this from. She wasn’t interested one bit. i didn’t want this to been a heated discussion. i afterwards walked away. i did forget to say one thing to her in the moment which was she looked prettier in person than social media. Which is one of the best compliment a girl could hear from social media. i do think if i said this i would have sounded too much. i feel ugly, i am not approaching a women anytime soon ever again. This rejection lowkey seriously hurt my self esteem and confidence. While i appreciate she didn’t say the u word to me (the word ugly.) she made me feel bad when i Clearly did like her and was attracted to her... she honestly was the perfect height for me too in a women. i give up with some women. Talking to her felt like talking to a child. It’s a term i say and use because of a daycare kindergarten job i had before i went college.
best part of my day was walking around two or three hours to go there today because good exercise and good to stay on my feet for most of day as my day job is a waiter. i
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best part of my day was walking around two or three hours to go there today because good exercise and good to stay on my feet for most of day as my day job is a waiter. i
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didn’t like what happened today and i didn’t even eat dinner. i am only going to reflect on what happened and what i could have done better. I’m a protectionist in some ways with the standards i have for my self. i also understand she was having a long busy day herself, she did mention while I’m at work and etc. i like to hope i was respectful the very least.
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Wait so were you actually filming? Because you said “online viral moment”? All i can say is dont be a follower and do things the way a majority of people would because it doesn't work for everyone. Next girl, flirt a bit first and once you see there me be mutual interest in talking then ask for their number. Best thing honestly is to offer your number and she knows she has your respect because she can text you when she gets good and ready
i wasn’t the one who filmed this no
So you messed up by not taking the first rejection not the second rejection or the 3rd.
You completely ignored her warning of get out by calling security!
You should feel bad!
Always listen to the first rejection!
You were rude aggressive and you worried her and stressed her out. You ruined her day!
She had to get aggressive to get rid of you! Lucky she did not have pepper spray!
Pepper spray in England? That is a new one
O yeah pathetic dude assuming most people online are us or English. It's not even my second language.
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It was only a five minute conversation i had with her
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you not understanding consent is sickening.
but with the whole end shit of you saying it was "like talking to a child" and "i give up on some women".
she knew. and she dodged a bullet.