So; I've recently been talking to this girl- we have really hit it off; we speak everyday and she hasn't missed a morning message in 4 months. Issue is, due to my past, I get quite anxious about things. (My ex cheated on me numerous times)
The main two are- every now and then I'll check our messages to see if my messages actually sent (I have dodgy Internet where I am sometimes) and it told me she was online x minutes ago. 90% of me knows this is nothing to worry about, but the other part is making stupid scenarios up like 'she's seen your message- just doesn't want to reply' or 'She's found someone else'
She has around 400 followers and follows 1000+. I think I'd get a big iffy if it was more 400 followers/50 following. I just worry there's someone else in her DMs.
It's not in a possessive way- I just like to know I'm the priority you know? We've both told each other we love each other pretty much daily; and she always reassures me.
Women on here- would you still follow back someone who requested to follow you? Would you loose feelings for someone if you've had a bad day?
The main two are- every now and then I'll check our messages to see if my messages actually sent (I have dodgy Internet where I am sometimes) and it told me she was online x minutes ago. 90% of me knows this is nothing to worry about, but the other part is making stupid scenarios up like 'she's seen your message- just doesn't want to reply' or 'She's found someone else'
She has around 400 followers and follows 1000+. I think I'd get a big iffy if it was more 400 followers/50 following. I just worry there's someone else in her DMs.
It's not in a possessive way- I just like to know I'm the priority you know? We've both told each other we love each other pretty much daily; and she always reassures me.
Women on here- would you still follow back someone who requested to follow you? Would you loose feelings for someone if you've had a bad day?
What Girls Said
You're setting yourself up for failure if you keep looking at every little thing she does or doesn't do. You need to consider disconnecting from things that make you thin that way. It's not healthy seeing if she's online or not or seeing if she is making you a priority. Whatever and whoever is meant for you will be, and you will not have to worry because they will make you feel at peace