To me, it makes about as much sense as me giving you tips on how to beat me in a game. What are your thoughts?
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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I agree 100%. Women typically give poor dating advice because what they say they want and what they actually respond positively to are usually different things. For example, women say they like nice guys. It's true they "like" nice guys, but they are not as sexually attracted to them as they are to guys who don't treat them with kindness and respect. We all know that is true because we see it happen all around us every day, but it's rare for women to actually acknowledge it.
Maybe I am doing something that bothers my partner and I don't understand because I am a male, she is a female, and I don't seem think, and feel things the way she does. So, if I want to understand the female perspective, I SHOULD go ask another guy but I SHOULD NOT ask a female who actually sees things from a female perspective? Does that really make any sense?
They will give bad advice because fish don't give good advice on how to catch them. Go to the people who do catch fish for advice on how to catch them. Make sense now?
Any advice from anybody, is just an idea or suggestion, not an answer nor solution... one can analyze and take what we deem as best.. from whatever we obtained from the advice/suggested..,
The same way some women should stop seeking advices from men, because most of men claim to want a sweet, supportive caring wife, but it turn out that they always go for the selfish bitches while ignoring the caring women 🤷♀️
No one hurted me, but I noticed that a lot. I swear whenever a woman show a nasty personality she always have a bunch of guys going after her, ignoring the carring and sweet women.
Nope. That’s what’s more surprising because they choose the nasty bitch even if she’s plain over the sweet pretty woman. That sound crazy but I saw it with my own eyes. They find the bitchy women to be more fun and exciting and think the sweet girl is boring af, even if she’s prettier. To be honest all the women I have meet immediately got respected and loved by their men the moment when they stoped to be extremely caring and attentive to them. What’s so funny is that men always deny that evil women turn them on.
Not truly since they marry them and treat them like queens lmao. And trust me I have seen a lot of hot smoking gorgeous successful men, with a kind personality married to nasty disrespectful average women that they worship. there is an exception everywhere of course, but usually the men only go to the sweet girls because they can’t handle the bad bitches. They flirt with them when they are young and attractive but when they get old and broke they suddenly start to seek true love and a peaceful submissive woman. The only men who were seeking for a supportive wife were stupid, misogynistic, insecure losers
I have hear many, many, too many guys complain that girls only like bad boys. The assholes that treat them like trash and they always crawl back to them. I never once hear a girl telling the reverse. Usually our stereotype is to go for the hot ones no matter their personalities, just like yours is going for the bad boy no matter what he looks like. I have seen many girls go for the asshole. I have seen many guys go for the hot girl. I never once saw a guy go for the bitch, unless she was really hot. Really never. You are the ones who do that not us
I'd say so to a degree. If it's basic shit then sure women can give useful advice there, but specific details about dating advice, no. If a guy wants dating advice he goes to a guy that's had success in getting girl's numbers or just going on dates. Vice versa for girls that want to attract guys. If a girl wants to attract guys she should go to a girl that's had success in that area.
You have to take into account the individual you are asking for advice. Not all sources are created equal. Maybe a guy you know has went through a really similar situation what you need advice on and they can tell you how they handled it and what the outcome was. It can work both ways and there is no right or wrong answer here.
Depends on what it is. To many doesn't know a shit how they really work and give presumption based advice that most of the times are shitty advice. or for that matter doesn't really understand what they are giving advice about. (have seen to much of this IRL and online)
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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Women aren't going to tell you the truth, IN GENERAL. Because of that, and not knowing whether they're lying or not, it's best to observe and see what works instead of asking.
Or ask men who are successful at dating, because they know what actually works and what doesn't.
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Anonymous
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You should ask them but don’t take it at face value. They’ll tell you what they want but it’s filtered through their own caricatured perception of the guy they want. And it’s worth nothing that just because they want something doesn’t make it’s fair or reasonable for you to cater to them. You’re walking a tightrope in a gale and it’s okay to say “fuck you im not doing that and fuck you for wanting me to.”
I think it depends on the advice. But I do agree that the experience is very different for them than us. They have no idea, nor do we really about what it's like for them.
Commitment is the name of the game. Both genders give bad advice, they don't explain the logic behind their advice and they rarely give clear personal examples of how their advice worked for them.
A lot of people don't have any experience in the areas they speak of, but they give advice given to other people in situations that are somewhat similar in a general sense.
I strongly disagree. As with all advice, I consider the source but who knows better how to get the girl than a girl? What you say makes not sense.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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Well said, definitely agree on this! Women won't usually tell you the hard truth like a guy friend would, as it's in their nature to not want to hurt a guys feelings etc, they'll tell you what you want to hear.
Girls are much more intuitive about what they like and don’t like. Most of them can agree on similar issues involving relationships too. Girls advice is as good as gold if you ask me
Honestly getting advise from women who similar to the woman your interested in makes the most sense. It more like me give you advise on how to win in a team pvp match. You get a win and i have another good player in the community.
I mean if you want a leg up I'd recommend getting advice from a female friend or family member. As long as they are a decent level headed human being then I don't see the problem.
yes it's funny. if you ask a woman for advice and then ask her about her past experiences, you'll find that her own advice won't ever let you score with her xD
*sigh* The term is "romantic partner" not "romantic adversary". She's supposed to be on YOUR side, or you on hers. THis is going to be a problem for you, if you don't correct it...
I just knew what the results were going to look like! xD Ladies sorry, but you all want different things so it's hard for you to give us advice on what another girls wants. It's oukey
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