Search Results: working with my ex

A friend of an ex contacted me. Reply or not?

This ex who was a manipulative narcissist is blocked by me on every social media and messaging services. After 3 years of the last contact with both of them one of her friends has sent me a "hey". I obviously ignored it....

kinggeorge007

Xper 7 Age: 39

Girls, Is she just talking to me to get over Ex?

we have been working together for a few months now, she had broken up with her boyfriend and says she is over him, she calls me her work bestie, she always wants me to be around her and is always looking for me when I’m...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I just walk away from my ex?

Ex and I reconnected. We’ve been talking for six months. And there’s been 0 progress. I’ve seen him a few times but he was being awful then ghosted me for two weeks so I decided to move back to my home town. He...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

Relationships

Crazy making behavior from ex?

I broke up with my ex a couple of months ago. He has consistently contacted me almost every week, sometimes back to back until I respond. There were times he would even ignore my texts or calls when I would reach out. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I reach out to an ex after a few months of no contact to wish her a happy birthday? I'm the one who called it off, but she distanced herself?

I've been doing some research on whether or not I should be reaching out to my ex for her upcoming birthday later this month. Its been 2 months since we spoke last and I've done a lot of healing since. Lots of forums say...

New2this2

Xper 6 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Are my family being unfair?

I got out of a abusive relationship recently and my ex has tried to sabotage certain things in my life which I’m trying to sort. I’m still grieving and dealing with the trauma, and I do all the “right” things, look after...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

How do I nicely and professionally reject a coworker?

I started working at this company 2 moths ago, mostly remotely. We are in the same team so we work closely on daily basis. We connected well as friends too and we've seen each other couple of times in the office. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to stop obsessing about a cheating ex?

She was my first in everything. I was completely smitten. We were together during our teenage years, for about 3.5 years. Eventually, she broke up with me. I learned after the breakup that she was cheating on me while we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are my boyfriend and I over?

My long distance boyfriend has been given a lot of difficulties surrounding his family. He (25m) decided to get a second job, and help his family out for medical reasons as they just found things out. he told me two...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Is it a normal reaction to confirm a false accusation after being accused too much?

My friend's been dating her boyfriend for nearly 1 year. The guy's mother hates her because of what supposedly her mother did several years ago. Her mother supposedly cheated with her now ex husband. So since her mother...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Would you hold on to hope for a successful second chance?

Long story short, my ex and I broke up because we weren't seeing eye to eye on marriage- I was certain we were working towards getting married together one day whereas he was still unsure after nearly 3 years together and...

reignstorm

Xper 4 Age: 29

Do you think girls generally find it unattractive/attractive for a guy to acknowledge that a girl is mentally stronger than he is?

I'm basically wondering how you honestly feel about this kinda honesty. Does it more show that he's open and humble or does it more show that he's weak and unfit to be with a lady or something else? Feel free to talk...

Rab1901

Yoda Age: 35

I'm basically wondering how you honestly feel about this kinda honesty. Does it more show that he's open and humble or does it more show that he's weak and unfit to be with a lady or

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Do abusers actively try to change their behavior?

So, I have a few tendencies when I’m angry to blame my boyfriend or yell, and The other day he broke up with me, as his therapist called me emotionally abusive. The kicker is, in November I told him I knew I could no...

Sabrina224

Xper 5 Age: 27

So, I have a few tendencies when I’m angry to blame my boyfriend or yell, and The other day he broke up with me, as his therapist called me emotionally abusive. The kicker is, in

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Men vs women telling a story about the other sex to the other sex. Why are the responses so tilted?

I broken up with my girlfriend a month ago, and naturally people ask me what happened. Short version being we had nothing in common so I didn’t see it working out long term. I tried to break things off as painless as I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does raising and investing in a woman's ex's kids benefit men? What do men gain from working hard and cashing out on another man's kids?

Women will automatically get triggered by this one but it has to be asked and the right woman will answer properly. Women will say men are low value, no purpose, no intelligence, misogynistic etc because they know men...

Alphadude1982

Xper 2 Age: 44

Women will automatically get triggered by this one but it has to be asked and the right woman will answer properly. Women will say men are low value, no purpose, no intelligence,

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Why does my ex come back when he says he wanted to date someone more popular and successful?

About me: I'm 29 I have my own apartment in the city and working in marketing. I've travelled solo all around the world when I was a student. I was seeing this guy who is also 29 for a few years long distance and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help me plot to get my ex back?

With plot I don't mean manipulate, lie or play games. I mean more like an action plan. First of all here's the reasons we broke up: - I was where he lives to study - Pandemic - We both lost our jobs (pandemic)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Will he ever make things official or is he just stringing me along?

I have been working on a relationship with this guy (28) for 17 months now It’s been on and off because I caught him talking to other females in the past We finally sat down and had a conversation about why he was talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)