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Just a short story for the gist of it: I've met this woman whom I greatly enjoy talking to, who is also very beautiful, extroverted, outgoing and social. We met at church and spoke on a few ocassions. When I talked to her she always looked me straight in the eyes without breaking away and all that. She mentioned a bit casually that she and her friends hosted regular get-togethers back at their campus and that I should come. I said I'd think about it, flash forward to the Sunday before the Tuesday for the get-together and without me saying anything she goes out of her way to ask me if her friend had added me to their whatsapp group, I say no and she does so personally immidiately *and* adds me to her personal whatsapp (even though she didn't need to). Now at the actual events where I've attended thrice now, she's been a bit more "distant" I suppose, not really initating convos, at times I think even avoiding eye contact. Last time though me, her and my sister who went along spoke and she mentioned that she "overheard" my conversation nearby with another guy when I talked about how "it could be a movie the way you met your wife", even though she was at that time in the midst of a high-pace card game, and she commented on hearing something about "romantic movies" (I nor he said nothing of romance at any point).

So am I being silly here, is it just "normal extroverted girl behavior" or is there something to gauge here in the form of romantic interest or attraction? Thankful for input. I feel like the invite and whatsapp deal could be a sign but I'm chronically cynical lol.

I think she's beautiful, and she seems so sweet, but her father has been in jail for the past 12 years for being a gang leader. She was 14 when he got taken in. He will be out in 2 years. She loves him because her deadbeat mother didn't stick around when her father did. She loves her mother now by the way because her mom took care of her when her dad went to jail.

Basically, women who are beautiful and have the world at their finger tips, with unlimited dating options, ending up single and childless due to not lowering their standard and/or being more practical to holding out for some perfect, guy that will never come.

EXAMPLE

Kelly Hu was 34 years old in 2002 when the scorpion king dropped

She could easily have gotten a very decent man for a husband and possibly have kids. Now she is 55 years old, single and childless.

Sure, she can still find a guy now to commit to her, but I guarantee you that it's not a man she would have wanted in her physical prime and most likely is not her best option aka. she would have to settle. And with kids out the picture, not a lot of high, quality guys will take her seriously for long, term relationship.

And we see examples like this all the time, even with average and below average women. Whereby, they hold out for some perfect guy, turning down decent male partners, or raise their standards so high that the only guys who qualify are men who don't want them.