I think my husband is having an affair, what are the signs?

[Anonymous]

So we’re been married 15 years and have 3 children. It hasn’t been the best relationship and the beginning years I wonder why I ever stuck around. Neither of us have ever cheated ( that I know of) but he has continuously over the years been caught talking to various woman in a sexual manner. He was never really affectionate and I remember the days he would have touch me if he wanted sex, or say he loved me when he did something wrong. Putting all that aside I went away in 2021 for a hen weekend, I met a male as you do, and nothing happened atall but for some reason I liked him, and I accepted his request on social media. By husband caught on a few weeks after I was back ( no conversations happened with this man past the weekend we were away) but a few photos likes etc. My husband since then has been what I can only call as obsessed with me. He constantly is hugging kissing, saying beautiful things, how much he loves me. This hasn’t wore off since. But I’m thinking now that maybe it’s not related to what happened with me and he’s having an affair. He’s very secretive of his phone, if I come in he will click off what he was on or quickly face it down. I found an ever too spray in his car (which hasn’t ever been used it’s me, nor do we use this and never has he mentioned this) along with various other situations such as him so say being out with his brother but me finding out from his brothers wife that the brother wasn’t out atall that night, he doesn’t answer the phone when out etc etc. So my question is, usually if you search affair info online it says the wife and spouse get further apart and he becomes distant, which isn’t happening here. He wants sex with me daily, we have a happy life and relationship… would an affair cause him to guiltily fall in love with me?

[Summeroflove]

A lot of times when someone starts cheating you never know especially if they are dark personalities. They are very careful about hiding it and covering it up but as time goes on they become more risky because they haven’t gotten caught. They also believe if you’re too stupid to figure it out and too weak to stand up for yourself to confront them. You deserve it. That’s honestly how they feel I don’t agree with it but they don

Talking is cheating and I would say it’s very likely not just one affair. He’s probably had MANY that you never knew about. I don’t know for sure but I can only assume he has.

While men may be more impulsive cheaters on average there are exceptions to that rule. You may think well they are easier to catch… That’s not necessarily true since a lot of these men are sleeping with women that they will never see or talk to again. Women on average have a longer paper trail. They cover it up and plan it out but they likely know the perosn they’re with. They can if opportunities present themselves at the right place and right time. But that’s a whole other story.

A man may go to bars and clubs. Sleep and hook up with random women. You just never knew he did. Because he’s not talking to them all the time… So ir sucks but that’s what happens a lot. They

[Steven_lokken]

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[Anonymous]

He definitely sounds suspicious, is he staying late coming home from work? What about the way he dresses? Hiding his phone if he never did it before is a sign.