I’m having an affair, I think my husband suspects but he’s avoiding confronting it?

I’m in the middle of what would probably be called an affair, it started off as a secret friendship for 7 years but the past year it’s been sexual. I believe my husband has suspected for a while at the beginning, and even asked me out front which I denied. Since then I have became less concerned of showing signs of having an affair, I’ve got sloppy with hiding it as the affair has progressed further, maybe I’ve been trying to show obvious signs subconsciously so I can admit all? I’m just speculating and being my own therapist. But anyway, recently I’ve been out every weekend, saying I’m with friends with no real proof, getting extra done up. Which he’s questioned, coming home early hours or not atall as I’ve been “sleeping at my friends house”. He’s going extra underwear in my handbag, and even had sex with me after I’ve just had sex with him. He never asks to look at my phone, or wants proof of where I go, so you think I could be imagining him allowing me to have an affair or do you think it’s likely he has an idea? Why would he not confront me if he knew, might I add, we do have a lively relationship, we have sex regularly more than average, we are very affectionate and over all have a beautiful life together. I’m having an affair with someone I also love deeply, no excuses given, I’ll face my consequences when the time comes but until then I will continue to please myself, as you only have one life.

I’m having an affair, I think my husband suspects but he’s avoiding confronting it?
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