Search Results: how can i make a guy like me

Am I being selfish?

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he's a single dad , he has a son but his mom also lives with him and his dad passed away years ago. So for the first time I met his kid 2 months ago, I absolutely adore...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

How To Deal With A People Pleaser Brother?

my brother is obsessed with making people happy and feeling validated. i often say no to people and that makes me a "loner" and "negative", adjectives he's been avoiding since he reached crossed the age of 12. he's 18...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

Girls, If you think a guy is good, what else could make him a virgin or struggle to get a girlfriend, besides shyness, looks or personality?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

A guy I saw on YouTube says math is a trainable skill and not a genetic birth right and you can improve your math skills with training, thoughts?

In high school I believed my intelligence was set in stone and nothing I did would be able to raise it or lower it, but now I believe I can do things to raise my intelligence and I can do things to lower my intelligence....

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Society & Politics

Why a Maga fanatic invite a JW at their cook out but discriminated the LGBTQ why?

I disgracefully I have Maga neighbors with Trump flags they discriminated my trans cousin who was a woman not a guy. Yelling if no remorse or repentance will end in hell. They talk hate speech about how much they hate...

SuperZonicGUY1992

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why would a guy reject a girl when he seemed to be interested?

So this guy from my school day used to stare a lot. He would stare at me a lot, then progress his act to wander around me (maybe trying to get my attention) Since I was in school I would just underestimate the thought of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If a man wants to pursue a woman, why can't he take the initiative to plan and set the dates?

I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We have been on a few dates. We are both single parents, which makes things a little more complicated. He has his child part time, but I have mine full time. He always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Am I the bitch for yelling at my ADHD boyfriend and dumping him?

I’ve never even heard of ADHD until I met this guy, in fact I’m not even sure it’s a real disorder or he’s just using it as an excuse for his lazy and lackadaisial behavior. We’ve been dating about 10 months, I live in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you agree that our environment and the people we interact with directly affect our behaviour and personalities to a large extent?

So you find it harder to be your best self in that society where the girls are constantly competing and jealous or the guys are trying to show their importance through insulting you. For example, unknown boys feeling...

Babygirl_S

Guru Age: 29

So you find it harder to be your best self in that society where the girls are constantly competing and jealous or the guys are trying to show their importance through insulting you.

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Was I just being delusional or was/maybe still is interested and did I blow it?

I’m just going to get to the point I got rejected again I’m pretty sure usually when I see a girl walking and talking with a guy I already know it’s a wrap. I was at my orientation for my job lasted 3 days she glanced at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you ever spend time with your girlfriends talking about sex or do you turn a casual conversation towards sex?

With us guys, from about 2nd grade onwards, we talked A LOT about sex!!! The only other things most of us are interested in is cars, guns, explosives, sports and, in later years, booze and drugs!! VERY RARELY do you...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

How Do I Look?

Can people tell me if Im ugly?

I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Woman talk to me they tell me they're secrets they tell me I'm a nice guy and a good friend but the moment I ask someone to buy them a drink or ask them out they disappear. I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to know if your flat mate who is a cancer likes you back?

a guy moved into the house I am living in about 4 and half months back. He is a Cancer. He said he is not looking for any relationship right now as he is focusing on his job. He goes to gym regularly and its his routine....

stupidgirl101

Xper 1 Age: 27

Relationships

My husband has gained a lot of weight lately. How can I bring this up without starting a fight?

So, my husband used to be pretty fit, but over the last year or so, he’s put on quite a bit of weight. I love him no matter what, but I’m starting to worry about his health and, honestly, sometimes I miss the old him who...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Why do guys always want to hug and stand too close even though we've just met?

Since back in college no matter what the circumstances guys have always found a way to get into my personal space and flirt playfully with me, which includes trying to hug/cuddle lightly or finding an excuse to whisper...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do charming / outgoing guys experience deep attraction? Are their nerves a sign they genuinely like a girl?

Would a charming, outgoing and generally confident (note not cocky) guy who counts several attractive socialite-model types as close friends get nervous around a girl? I mean to the point where he can’t make eye...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you ever date someone who couldn't speak the same language as you?

I met this guy last year whilst working together. He knows no English and we used to communicate through just joking around and one or two words. We got on really well even though we couldn't understand the words that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Curious how I as a guy can intentionally make sure a girl sees me as a friend only?

I am wanting to have more female friendships, but often times I think they get the idea that I'm flirting with them but I genuinely just want to be friends. What are good ways to put women more at ease being around me? I...

Sissy_K

Xper 1 Age: 24