Search Results: what girls want to hear

Some women expressed how they wouldn't want to propose to their guy because they want to know if they are serious about marriage. so they want the guy to do it. Sooo it makes me wonder if women even communicate they want marriage at some point before getting serious with the guy? Seems like important info to know before being heavily emotionally invested in him right?

You might try it this way "what are your views on marriage?" and hear his most honest unfiltered thoughts about it before proceeding any further.

Just a thought.

I just posted a lengthy response to a question about guys ghosting when they ask a friend for a date and get rejected. You are probably familiar with that tired line, "but I don't want to take a chance on ruining our friendship." That resulted in the ghosting that motivated the Asker to post the question.

1. After you reject him, that friendship probably is ruined anyway, because not many guys will want to hang around and watch you dating other guys after they got rejected. So that old line doesn't have much meaning.

2. HOW MANY TIMES have you heard a girl say, "I want my romantic partner to be my best friend." Well, if that's what you REALLY want, why wouldn't you date a friend? You're already halfway to your goal.

So. . . would you date a friend if he or she expressed interest? If you felt some attraction?

This girl, that I used to work with, and i started talking February. And we used to talk almost everyday. It almost seemed like neither wanted the convo to end.

We didn't hang earlier in the year until one day she visited me at work one day. She had lost her job and i didn't want to put too much on her plate.

We did hangout twice after that as well. The first time the vibes were amazing and it felt good but tbh i felt like i wqs exhausted after that day.

The second time didn't go as well as the first. It did feel different but i wouldn't say it went bad.

She said she had a good time and when i asked that we should do it again, she basically said yea but it might have to be until after August.

I told her to message me whenever she's down. I haven't heard back from her since.

she's working in her field and im trying to get my life together. If im being honest im not happy where i am at life and my confidence is lacking. And im pretty sure she's aware of that.

Nevertheless, i really fancy this girl she's amazing and And i fucking suck at dating.

Part of me thinks i should not message her because i dont want to come off as pushy