Search Results: being just friends

What matters more: financial security or relationship security?

If someone had only ever been your best friend and loved you like they love themself, would you stay with them even if it meant being homeless and starting over?

Telekinetic-Potato

Master Age: 29

Could he be using me? Or am I overthinking?

I am F17 (turning 18 in a week), my boyfriend is M18. We met 2 years ago and tomorrow marks our 1 year of being together. (by the way I am the date-to-marry type, please get my concern) I won't say he's a horrible...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend wants a one-week break, but I feel like she’s slowly letting me go, opinion?

I (25M) have been with my girlfriend (21F) for two years. The past few months have been tough — I’ve had money stress, working six days a week, while she doesn’t work or study. She often said she likes being spoiled, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Friend from middle school.. haven't seen or spoke to each other for almost 15 years. He is a good friend to me although I'm afraid of getting a crush?

Hi all, So I'm speaking with a guy that was my best friend in middle school. I've been speaking and exchanging reels on socials for almost a year. We haven't spoken in almost 15 years but he's been the only guy that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think she got lucky dating American?

I am talking to my friend whos American and his son is now in Philippines living with a girlfriend. He said he's son (32) so lazy to work even though he has a degree. He has 2 sons the other son makes $130k dollars even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

38M 30F why did a man online go from wanting to date to now wanting to be friends only and text everyday?

Is this man doing dark psychology by trying to say he wants to text everyday as friends after he used to say he wants to date me? Why would a man react to me confronting his evil deed towards me by saying he no longer...

Vjkdjdjr

Xper 1 Age: 36

Should I be worried?

I’m fairly new to serious relationships. This is my second relationship and first one being sexual. The guy I’m dating started out as just friends then it led to fooling around and then one day he expressed that he had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he like me?

So there this guy in my class who seemed to have some kind of feelings about me and I don't know if it’s positive or negative, first of all when we met we had one conversation and he started to tell everyone I’m obsessed...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Does this guy like me?

I met this guy at Uni, I got interviewed for one of his class projects. We exchanged numbers & it seemed pretty friendly. Eventually after him pushing ‘friendly’ vocabulary I was able to mention I was in a relationship, I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Advice with guys?

Recently, I was on FaceTime with my friend Sam, and his best friend Omar was also there. I used to like Sam last year (he’s aware), but lately I’ve been giving him the cold shoulder. While we were on the call, me and Omar...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

A Furious Wake-Up Call: A Message for Women

Hey, women, I’ve been reflecting on this video I watched where a woman was laughing off the male loneliness epidemic as something “made up,” blaming men for being reckless with our lives. It started as just another...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Where to go from this?

During a party recently, my girlfriend began going through my text messages. I don’t delete messages, I have texts from decades ago still on my phone including the texts from girl whom I had previously been on dates with....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

What are your thoughts on my best friend who betrayed me do you believe she is a narcissist?

So I founded out that my now ex best friend betrayed me behind my back and dated a guy I told her that I had a crush on for years and her excuse was something wrong I did when I was a teenager and I couldn't express my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is there any way that this wasn’t a flirty comment?

So yesterday my friend and I were on our way home from a Halloween costume party when we passed by a bar my brother and his friends went to so I decided to go in and say hi since I know them all pretty well. I was dressed...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girl at work often initiates convos as I walk by and remembers things I say, is she just being a friend?

I don’t really wanna make her uncomfortable if that’s all she is being is a friend. So basically there is a girl here who I am fond of , she works at the front desk and I rarely initiate convos with her. We see each other...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What should I do if another woman is putting a strain on my relationship?

My boyfriend of almost 1 year has a female friend that he has been increasingly getting closer with over the past 5 months. From the first time he met her, I have been very clear that I was uncomfortable with them...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Religion & Spirituality

My friend said God might let you suffer to make you stronger and more emotionally independent so you can be less needy and reliant, thoughts?

I had a problem at 19 and the consequences were obvious for me: Which is that I lost all fear of human beings, and went from being a coward that was afraid of not being liked, to being an emotionally independent person...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Family & Friends

Why do some old friends ignore you after high school?

I really don’t understand. I joined three friend groups but it didn’t last. Middle school they stopped talking to me because I’m too awkward, rude and they didn’t ask me to hang out anymore. High school wasn’t great...

Anonymous

(25-29)