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I met this girl start of last year at work (ages 21, 22). We immediately connected, and became friends. A month ish later we ended up hooking up, naturally transitioned to a situationship.

we used to hang out after work, do *ahem* stuff, play Fortnite, deep talk, and fell asleep cuddling tightly. She said didn’t want commitment, that she had fears. said she does like me and would’ve pursued something with me if it wasn’t for where she was in life right now.

Life happened, and we stopped, tho we kept being friends. Few months later I invite her to hang out and the next day, she tells me tbh she wants to resume (the casual stuff) and that she feels a type of something but was too shy to reinitiate. So we did.

After that didn’t see her for a few weeks cos went to see family in Italy. when I came back we hung out and she mentioned that our mutual friend/coworker mentioned to her I still had feelings for my ex… tbh back then time I was going through a confusing time. I was honest and admitted I still had feelings for my ex and that we met up right after I came back. She seemed uncomfortable, said go she’s glad for me for me but later on she said it felt weird. Few days after that she was fine, but then she stopped replying to my messages completely. Heard from the coworker that snitched that she was going through a rough time.

Heard she had her yearly visit to her hometown around then. she came back to work around January this year. she seemed open and cold at the same time. When our shift ended the same time I said I went to get food and she followed me. Convo was pretty good, but when I suggested getting ice cream she said “I’m not just gonna go wherever you go”. ? she's still replying to my messages in good time and isn’t dry. It’s been a while since then and it’s all still similar.

I guess I liked her more than I thought, and I feel really bad how all this unfolded. I still care about her a lot.

Do you think I hurt her and she’s salty, and that I played her?

Every single time she goes out of her way to be near this guy and to see him. She also looks at him when he leaves the area where she is and she does this when he isn’t looking at her. When he catches her looking at him she looks like she is confused and wants to avoid talking to him but yet she keeps looking at him and she gets only so close to him but not to have him talk to her it seems

She goes near him and yet she looks like she wants to not get into a conversation with him but she still goes near him.

People look at people it’s a part of life

i look at her a few times because I think she looks awesome

anyway she seems really confused by it. She said hi to me once and I said hi back but a few times she’s run off. I ignored it

today I saw her and I looked at her again and then she was acting confused by it. I saw her a few hours later and she ran into a corner and kept staring at me with her legs crossed and just staring. I gave a wtf 😳 look and kept doing what I needed to do. She then ran to near where I was and just stood near me but didn’t look at me

i left and as I was leaving she was looking at me from a distance and when I looked at her she looked as though like she was going to find somewhere to hide

its weirded me out can anyone help