A persons behaviour on instagram is scant indication of their fidelity.
You need to be aware that many if not all people treat the internet less seriously in general terms than IRL. People will do a lot of things online they wouldn't ever do IRL or even contemplate doing.
The behaviour is fine, you should only worry if he's more interested in following his instagrams than he is in spending time with you.
You should only break up with someone in exremis. Do let your partner know the behaviour hurt you and explain why; if he can convince you its innocent and your then cool with it that's great, but if he does try to do that, its important he shows genuine concern for your feelings (it doesn't mean he has to do any particular thing because of those feelings, but he should be showing genuine concern and should naturally tend toward doing his best not to hurt you).
Best of luck.
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If this is your boyfriend yes its reason to breakup yes as clearly he is doing somthing shady also him doing this don't mean u don't have a good body your body worth is not defined by who u are with
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I really don't know how normal that is these days. I have my insta locked down to family and friends and don't accept random requests. So hard for me to say how many guys (or girls for that matter) are doing this sorta thing. I suspect more than I think. As far as is it a problem? Is it for you? I mean unless you have a reason to believe he is going to take things further and act upon a friendship or online connection then no. Social media is made to be social. Just because he adds girls doesn't mean he is into them. That would be similar to saying he is adding guys he doesn't know so he must be gay. That doesn't make sense does it?
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