This is why it’s so hard to have trust in relationships?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I broke up about a year 1/2 ago and I was very in love with him. The breakup was very hurtful and I wanted to get back together but once he decided he was done he was very stern on his decision. It hurt so much I had to block his number so I could get over him. He messaged me about 4 months later asking to see me and wanted to take me on a date. I still had strong feelings for him but I was still hurt on how quick he gave up on our relationship before and I did not trust him. I tried to maybe take it slow and see how it went but his behavior was still very shady and it hurt too much to keep him in my life. I decided to block his # and social media again and work on moving on instead. It has been about 8 months later and one night he randomly started blowing up my phone demanding that I go meet up with him and hang out with him and how messed up I was for blocking him and never speaking to him again. He was being very persistent and demanding. I told him I was in a relationship with someone new and he did not care. The thing is , I know he is also in a relationship because I unblocked his instagram and seen his profile picture of him and a girl hugging wearing matching Christmas sweaters. He refuses to admit he is now in a relationship and tries to play the victim of how he was so hurt I left him he stayed single the whole time 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️. What is wrong with this man and why is he doing this?

[devilish-cutie]

This is nt why its hard to have trust. The man broke up with you and than didn't want to leave you alone to move on and you let him. You cannot expect any relationship with him, you broke up for a reason - it does not work. he will never give you what you want and he has no respect towards you. You should cut any ties w him and move on.

[Asker]

It’s hard to have trust because I know of so many men not just him that are in relationships and still try to play the field. I did lose contact with him. I said I blocked him multiple times and he keeps trying to reach out. The last time I blocked him was 8 months ago and he made a fake number recently to reach out to me and demand that I see him. I have no feelings for him anymore.

[devilish-cutie]

ask then for restraining order. So many men are players, thats a fact and that is why men should put an effort to prove us otherwise, by experience you should already know the signs when you should and when not to trust a person. Problem is that women catch feelings for players and expect them to change, its not gonna happen.

[Asker]

You are so right. I should have learned my lesson by now, I keep doing this to myself. I might be more naive than I thought.

[devilish-cutie]

Dont blame ysf for someone being bad to you, but just learn from it.
Good luck! :)

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

Oh who cares. “It’s hard for me to trust again after a guy dumped me!”

Grow up. People dump one another all the fucking time. Let me guess, was this the first time you’ve been dumped by a guy?

[Asker]

I have to grow up? Lol says a 40 year old troll

[FilmGuy93]

Because everybody has experiences with trying to trust someone and having them abuse that trust. You just get to a point where you aren't even interested in taking a chance on someone again.

[boggboss]

Probably trying to get sex from h again shows I picked a shit guy to be honest

[Asker]

Yupppppppp

[boggboss]

So if u know this why did it take u so long to cut him of its clear he is a shitty guy u can say its hard to tryst but simply put u put trust in the wrong person

[Asker]

I have attachment issues I need to work on.

[boggboss]

Then work on them before dealing with relationships as you are just adding more problems to a already hard process