Like I hook up with a girl and I do not know who she is. well I know who she is but I feel like I do not know her. I not sure when we hook I feel strange to touch her. Like when I look at her pic I can't believe we hook up. I feel like I do not know or trust her. I feel like she could knock me in the head. I just feel so scared to interact with my her. She dose not seem to trust me she want know where I am an if I am by her. she not like me in her life well out side of the date. she not like me by her people.
I keep feel like her life is dark. like I don't know if she dose bad thing when I not by her. Maybe she drinks and she smoke. Maybe someone her her when I not there it hard to think that she out there somewhere. What dose she want? what is she do? it hard think about. is she in pain. it all seem not real sometime and sometime to real and it scares me.
she not seem to trust me enough to tell me what going on in her life. she not want me to interfere in her life. I keep think she have something dark in her life but she get mad and say I was snoping.
I feel like I may go off on people in public or I may hurt then. sometime I feel shy like other may hurt me. WHY I feel this way?
do you ever think about the people you hook up with who they are and if they seem safe? Dose it feel strange to kiss or be with some one? Do you ever think about if you have a kid with them and there out there? I mean I know I did not cause she told me. Just she seem to think that I may hurt her and I think she may hurt me. We both do not know who the other one is that well.
I not sure why she hook up with a lot people or how she not fall in love with them. She seem them as just another guy. She want me to be respectful but she hate when I lie to her. I think she lie about thing to she just get mad when I ask or call her out on it. Just hook seem so real and I do not like them I want love more and to know the other person
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It is not uncommon to feel unsure or insecure in social situations, especially when it comes to intimacy or hooking up with someone. It sounds like you may be experiencing some anxiety or fear around interacting with others, and this may be impacting your ability to connect with people on a deeper level.
It is important to remember that everyone has their own unique experiences and perspectives, and it can be challenging to truly know and understand another person. However, it is possible to build trust and connection with others over time through open and honest communication and a willingness to be vulnerable.
It may be helpful to explore these feelings in therapy or counseling, where you can work through any underlying issues or fears that may be contributing to your anxiety. You may also benefit from practicing self-compassion and self-care, such as meditation, exercise, or other activities that help you feel grounded and centered.
Remember, it is okay to take things slow and prioritize your own emotional well-being in any social or romantic situation. It is important to communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly and to only engage in activities or relationships that feel safe and comfortable for you.
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