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Cheating is already awful but to then do the nasty deed in your partner's house (not even nor own house at least) has got to be one of the worst insults ever.

This happened to a good friend of mine. Her ex boyfriend (then boyfriend) had the nerve to bring the other woman to her house, do the nasty deed on her own couch, heads towards the bathroom with her to take a shower, eat some of her food from the fridge and used her wine bottle.

Even though she didn't walk in on them (she was working), she installed a hidden camera because his behavior changed. The next week, she viewed her camera and dumped him immediately. To her that was even worse than walking in on them cheating.

Obviously both ways are horrible ways to discover you've been cheated on but which would be worse to you?

- The old classical way of coming early from work or whatever reason and walking in on them cheating.

- Reviewing your installed camera the next day or week later and seeing what happened while you were gone.

Gym manager is attracted to me, but can’t tell if he’s a f*ckboy that does it w everyone. He’s extremely attractive til the point that I’m finding it hard to speak around him

First visit: he came over and asked if a resistance band was mine. Thought he was trying to pack it away, didn’t think much of it but noticed he kept walking past / looking at me

2nd visit: I was facing the mirror doing my stretches and he took a really deep breath when he saw me (like he was nervous?) He spoke (I had to get out my earphones) and asked if the resistance band was mine. At this point, I am thinking my resistance band either really annoys him or he’s trying v hard to talk to me

Went back to my thing and saw he turned to check me out while I stretched

3) 3rd visit: I was on the stairmaster and he was putting away the weights while facing me and lingered in the area

I went to the hiit studio, and didn’t know how to operate the lights and went out to seek help and lo and behold, he was the first one I saw. After He turned it on with the iPad, he was fiddling w the device / lingeringyI was an awkward mess and just said thanks without looking him in the eyes. he had this big smile on his face when he said no problem and kept touching his hair. I just turned away and went to get my equipment. He kept looking over at me before he walked out the door.

I kicked myself & told myself I’d approach him upstairs at the concierge when I finished my workout. When I got out of the hit studio, he was sat on the recovery chair right outside like he was waiting for me to get out? The gym was closing at this point and there was no one else in that section so he could have been anywhere else. I again freaked out due to nerves and walked right past him - the poor guy turned and looked at me walk away

I believe he’s trying very hard to approach me without being disrepectful. But I’m not confident and he’s absolutely gorgeous which explains my nerves. Any tips on how to make things happen?