What was motive of him pursuing me then dumping me?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a man for a month when all of sudden he started acting strange and distance towards me. When I questioned him about it he said I was being toxic and manipulative and I needed to heal so he was dumping me. It was super extreme. Anyway a few hours after he dumped me he gave a female my number and she texted me telling I was desperate and I needed to stop calling him and begging to be with him. I admit when he first dumped me I was shocked and I did beg and plead for a bit but it didn’t last past a day. I just had a strong reaction to the whole situation. Anyway during our dating time he was treating me and my daughter special buying gifts and coming to spend quality time with me so naturally suddenly being dumped and finding out another woman was in the picture was crushing for me and it’s been two weeks and I’m still hurt. What could be a mama motive for telling you you’re the one then suddenly dumped one you and sending a female on you? I’m so confused.

[spartan55]

Because he didn't like something about you after spending time with you. It's really simple.
The pursuing you, buying gifts and all of that has nothing to do with it. Why would he call you toxic and manipulative? Did he just make that up out of nowhere?

[Anonymous]

You aren't attracting or meeting men of God so don't be surprised when they treat you in such a way. Most of the collective either follows Satan without realizing, outright rejects God, or has been infected with demonic spirits or tendencies. Only through God can one find a good partner. Only He can know the good ones that hide amongst the demon possessed. It's likely you didn't know to choose from the beginning in this way so history repeats itself...

[spartan55]

Let us pray.

[Anonymous]

Gosh sounds like you dodged a bullet. He sounds like a headache. Lucky you! Enjoy yourself focus on mom stuff!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he was right about you being toxic. Could be he was just trying to get laid. Either you did or didn’t so he got what he wanted or didn’t get it so he left. Realized a girl w a kid is too much. Someone else prettier, younger w no kids. Maybe someone who was willing to give it up quicker. There’s a lot of reasons.