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Pros: She is a hard worker even willing to support her husband if he doesn't want to work. She achieves everything she sets her mind to. She loves to travel and will gladly take you all over the world or go hiking and backpacking to new adventures. She is pretty (not the prettiest) but has a great body. She cooks for you daily amazing dishes and loves to play videogames. She is very financially responsible, she looks younger than her age and is very family oriented. She is loyal, super sweet and caring.

Cons: she is insane and crazy. Really jealous, childish, explosive, has temper issues and extremely envious of other people. She constantly gives you stress and headaches and many times you feel you have to walk on egg shelves. She also has probable signs of autism and ADHD, is often times a Karen, and is willing to make a scene if things don't go her way. Even yell at children in the street if they are being annoying or at random people if they do something she doesn't like.

She won’t butt out. At first I took it as “okay, she means well”, but now I don’t know. I took a long break from dating and was fine just being single, and she says “nope, you’re 40 now and you’ve been single too long. You need a man in your life. Since you’re friends with me you’re getting a man whether you want one or not” (she loves to matchmake). I realize she has a point, so I get on Facebook dating. She saw me on the apps one day at lunchtime (we work together) and she’s telling me who to swipe right on, who to swipe left on, etc and when I didn’t swipe right on a guy she told me too, she literally took my phone out of my hand and swiped on a whole bunch of guys because I (according to her) “clearly don’t know how to pick men”. Eventually I did match with a guy who I really liked, we’ve been dating for almost a year, and she doesn’t like him. Apparently she’s got someone all picked out who she wants to fix me up with (who’s a really nice guy and financially well off but I’m not attracted to him). The guy understands and said it’s fine but she won’t stop and says “this guy’s perfect for you, and your boyfriend’s a loser. Dump him and give this other guy a chance.” (The guy is definitely loaded and my boyfriend supports himself well, but he treats me well and we make each other happy).

she’s gotten to the point where she’s literally taken my phone out of my hand and texted my boyfriend from my phone making really ridiculous demands on him (like demanding he get me a Louis Vuitton bag for my birthday which I know he can’t afford). She’s caused some bad fights between us this way.

I’ve tried telling her to butt out but she doesn’t. She’s dating a guy who is 25 years older than us and is trying to push me to date much older as well. My boyfriend is early 40’s, like me. Nothing wrong with dating older men, but if I’m happy why can’t she just butt out?