Help to understand what's going on in his mind?

[Anonymous]

I meet a guy and we slept two times together, and now he kinda stopped texting and making new dates...

I wondering why men stopping to sleep with girls even if they know they will get sex... I mean if he here just for sex okay I told him I want sex too so why to stop texting and initiate?

[ohsheeT]

Because it was all about and only about sex. But him making to rules to cheat you out of it in away.

And once you said yes I want sex. That's just to much for him and now he feels That with that? Yes come up with a commitment of some sort or it's going to make him work to hard for it He doesn't want that he just wants to get on get off and leave.

And he doesn't want that

he wants to do something a few times with nothing else

So if you really, really look at it, it's true, and he's just using you. He doesn't care how long you make love or how good it is. He just wants to get on and move on.

It's really sad because of what you feel or felt because you felt that feeling Even though I would have to say it was no good. You just think it was because you're lonely. And you want to feel that passion? Remember , you can feel that passion with anybody

[boggboss]

How was the sex and what type of a guy did he seam lile to many guys like this its not just wanting sex but its the challenge to get it that they enjoy

[Asker]

Well I can tell he was enjoying in the sex...
Noo he said he doesn't want girlfriend right now
So I wondering why he doesn't initiate meetings if he wants sex... Like is there some rules how manu time you see each other or something...

[boggboss]

wouldn't say their are rules like that but equally how likely is it that u are the only girl he is fucking and if others are reaching out to him surly he is responding to them over planning things with u

[Asker]

Haha yeaa I get it but why to bother and go through same talking, dating with other when I already here

[boggboss]

Because its other women who he will get the chance to fuck with will feel different and always has the chance to be better then if he can't find better he can always contact u as a backup option

[Asker]

Yep makes sense thk
So men nowadays basically don't have feelings haha

[boggboss]

They do have feelings lol but he has stated what he wants he is looking to have fun and enjoy being single feelings are not involved with what he wants with u

[Asker]

Lol so he can control his feelings I don't think so...
Feelings can't be controlled

[boggboss]

No but feelings can be ignored and pushed to the side lol I can feel bad about doing somthing and still do it many people act like they are controlled by feelings when it simply takes some self control lol

[bowenw]

If he's a player, he's probably moved onto other women.

[Asker]

Hmm and a little help how to know if he is a player?

[bowenw]

Players usually pressure for sex early on.

[serious]

Well, he was only physically and sexually attracted to you. He got what he wanted.

[yotaman99]

Well my ex shrank me so no women want too

[yotaman99]

And I’m way too small for most women

[Asker]

Haha well don't worry his was small too...

[yotaman99]

Really well I was forced to be small my ex took care of that

[yotaman99]

How small?

[Asker]

Pretty small

[yotaman99]

Really? Im probly smaller my ex used testosterone blockers on me for 4 years and I didn’t know

[yotaman99]

He was lucky enough to talk to you tho lol

[Anonymous]

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