Guy's Behavior

What is going on in his mind?

So he broke up with me 4-months ago, saying “he loves me but isn’t in love with me” he’s an avoidantly attached person, everything he said was textbook!

We bumped into eachother at a crowded event (thousands of people) I didn’t know he was going nor did he know I mean I decided last minute to go anyway, it’s not something he’d have known I’d be there for or not, this was first time we saw eachother since he broke everything off, it was awkward pleasantries!

Since then about 3-days after he text me first time since breaking up, saying “sorry for the awkward hi, and how are you, I understand if you decide to ghost me”

I was taken a back, my therapists says that was expected avoidants do exactly that! But I politely replied saying “I’m good thanks hope you’re well”

He replied “thank you, I hope one day you can forgive me” to which I asked “thank you for what?”

He replied with “because you said hope you’re well”

At this point I thought conversation was over and that’s it, these few texts spanned over like 3-days, I didn’t reply straight away cause I was confused why he’s texting me, but then he text saying “I still have Lego flowers at home that we’re gonna be for you, you can have them if you want, consider it a peace offering, i under if you don’t want them”

I was very confused with this one it took me a day to reply to that, all I said was “a peace offering? I’m not sure what you expect me to say right now”

He left that on unread for 2days and then opened it and didn’t reply, what was the point in him bothering to text for?

What the hell is going though his mind?
What is going on in his mind?
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