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So me and my ex had no contact for about 1 month. One night at like 4 in the morning he texts me, saying hey. I didn’t respond until the next day. I was really surprised that he texted me, because back when we broke up, he said how he hated me, and never wanted to talk ever again. We initiated contact back and forth, he asked how I was doing, etc. He than began flirting with me a week after that, he even talked sexually. Than he’s telling me he’s not looking for a relationship from anyone, and he only wants to be just friends. He is one of those party boys that takes drugs, etc. To me he is a loser. He’s usually the one to contact me first, just saying hey and we text for a bit. But one day I got a message of him saying he’s in the mood. Why would he say this if were only friends? I haven’t seen him in person for about 2 months. He texts me saying sexual things, and that he wants to see me tonight. I didn’t see him but the next day I check his twitter, and he tweeted that he liked someone and that he’s scared to like someone again. I asked him about it, and he said that he liked this other girl. When just last night he was calling me baby and saying sexual things. What should I do?
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Okay, let's review. You wrote that to you, he is a loser (which from your description, I completely agree, he is a loser). He takes drugs, etc. He told you he HATED you, never wanted to talk to you again and broke things off with you. Then after a month, he texts you at 4 a. m. (NOT okay) and tells you he just wants to be friends. So, he acts friendly and gets you to keep responding, drawing you back in, then basically propositions you, telling you he wants sex with you.
If you have any respect for yourself, you will cut this guy off and move forward with your life. He clearly has no respect for you, and is treating you like an object he can manipulate to meet his own wants and needs, when HE wants and needs something. Go let him treat some other girl like a subhuman and find someone worthy of your ability to love and care for another person, because he is a LOSER. I don't normally get so irritated as I did when reading about this jerk. He has you upset and confused, and is playing with your emotions. That's not right, I really hope you can just move on. Take care!1