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I have dressed nice had good hygiene smelt good my whole life women and girls have either avoided me or bullied me I have never had a friend that’s a girl in my life even though I am always respectful towards them even my family members that are women hate me and my neighbours that are women avoid me I rate myself a 2-3 facially and a few times I’ve had girls that have been dared to say hello to me and hug me, I notice when I go out even when I got my perfume on and a very nice outfit girls and women speed walk away from me and when there’s a group of them they whisper and giggle or they give me a discgusted look, recently I been into trouble with the police just because my female cousin got her male friends to try and gang up on me and bully me because I was ugly and then it backfired on them not saying what exactly happened but it sure gave them stitches then my female cousin called the police and
told them that I was taking inappropriate photos of people

Its amazing how im 42 and still learning things about myself. So what i mean is lets say i just got off work and want to say do the laundry at home. I need a small maybe 10-15 minute buffer before i go ahead with it. You might also call it simply a pause to simply allow my brain to reset itself and brace for the next activity so i can go at it with 💯 mental energy and clarity.

looks like im not the only one who needs this cause i found this article on it. https://dakharipsyc.com/blog/mental-buffer-time/

Why These Short Pauses Matter

Constant activity with no breaks can lead to mental fatigue, shorter attention spans, and more stress. The mind works best when it has a little space to reset. Even a couple of minutes is enough to:

- Process what you just finished, so nothing lingers in the background
- Calm any tension or anxiety before moving on
- Give your brain a break from always being “on”

If you’ve ever felt on edge or stuck in a cycle of busyness, buffer time acts as a natural speed bump, helping you slow down so you can move forward with greater wellbeing.