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I hope that my question is chosen as great since I really can use so much support right now.

We are renewing our vows but I would enjoy a courthouse wedding. I don't wanna spend thousands of dollars right now on a huge wedding. Especially not right now, but maybe down the road. My husband and I would love to go to the courthouse to renew our vows. Nevertheless, family members that have been cut off expect an invite still. His mom, siblings, nieces, and nephews are the only ones going to be present. I want a small family only wedding.

While my spouse was away for work, people treated me with disgust and ruined every aspect of my character. My husband was well-known in our neighborhood, but he kept his personal and professional lives apart. He did not bring his real life outside of the home.

We live in a small gossiping community where everyone wants to know your business, and if they don't know anything about your life or you're not a member of their so-called "clique," they'll spread rumors. I stay at home and keep to myself, but that's not enough. This town will continue to spread rumors with "I heard". People in this town will say "Oh, I heard that his water is cut off" if you pee in a garbage can with no one around you. You can go to the store and mind your own business. As soon as you arrive home, someone is going to call you and say, "Girl, I heard you were in the store spending so much money; how are you doing?"

There are people that live in our community that you haven't seen ever before. It is hard to date people here because the gossipers wanna control that as well. The community we live in makes it hard to live here unless they know your business.

I just wanted to express why I want a closed private wedding. I want to live my life in this community without the community interfering with my life and destroying it.

Hi! I want to start off with a little background, my friend ( let’s call him K ) and i have known each other since we were kids (10+ years) and are very close. I met his wife ( let’s call her F ) on their wedding day and since have become pretty good friends with her as well i’d say. Him and his wife have been married for just about 1y and a half, and have been together for almost 2y. Now this might be a little hard to keep up with so bare with me please, my issue is that my mother is good friends with F’s ex coworker and saw they were hiring but when I told my mother I was reluctant to work there because of things F had told me, F’s ex coworker told my mother that F left there due to drama she had caused because her coworkers knew she was married yet she had been sleeping with one of the cooks, along with other personal things. I was completely shocked to hear this because i didn’t think F would do something like this. On the other hand, F and I have never hung out without K present, sure we text every so often but I really don’t know much about her besides what I’ve seen when she’s with K. So i’ve been sitting here, extremely conflicted, because i don’t know whether to tell K or not. I don’t have really any solid evidence so even if I do say anything would he believe me? I would really appreciate any kind of advice.