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We were together and he enjoyed time together with 3 kids

But when the kids asked too much of him he’d want to leave and go away. Ended up moving into a box room at his friends house even tho he has a house he let rot.

He would always say “he needs a break from me” cos I’d “demand too much from him”. I’d ask him to look after his own kids.

He was with me the day beofre he met this new girlfriend and has moved insanely fast with her. Threatened me with lawyers but didn’t do it. Obviously so he can tell this girlfriend that

He missed his daughters first day at school and now soon to miss his sons 3rd birthday

He keeps saying he has everything he wants now and I couldn’t give him that (he means going to the pub with his friends together). I just said I’m sorry I don’t wanna leave the kdis all the time to see ur friends together. Was happy to have them over and kids could finally meet his friends (never have in 7 years).

Is he actually truthful and has everything he wants or did he just not want the kids and the effort and the responsibilities

Also I NEVER STOPPED HIM coming to those days. I send over 20 messages asking him
To come those days. And making sure since he promised before this new girlfriend he would.

So I ended up dating someone this summer 3 months ago. I didn't know I was going to fall for him straight off the bad because he wasn't my Unitas type as always. He was 15 yeas older than me and has a lot more life experience then myself. However I began to notice little things , that I never let go un noticed normally. He was extremely mean to his mother and would go through periods of causing her out. And the last time he did so I ended up looking into places he could stay. Because she told him to get out. Although he started off very good and he told me I was his angle. He would do anything for me , he ended up coming to church with me and involving himself in my life. He still had his ways. He would get angry at me if I choose to spend time with my friends. He would tell me I was wrong for not staying with him. He would also get super mad if he thought I wore something too sexy. He would get really nasty to me and act out. He'd punch the wheel of his car till he broke out in a sweat , and curse everyone around him out. And once he got that out he would tell me that this was only his frustration. And the next day he would be better. He would then tell me my weekends belonged to him , therefore I was to always spend them with him. My family and friends began to get super suspicious, because they stared noticing me moving in his direction more so. I would I just listen to everything he said because I thought inwas helping. And me coming from a religious background , I thought I was supposed to be submissive. He was very aggressive while I was very mile mannered. He wanted to spend every waking moment with me , showing up unannounced. It's like he had no shame , the more I'd try to help him get a place he was happy in his car and wanted to entertain a life with me like that. He started off amazing and waa really good to me. Then he got comfortable. Trying to impregnate me every time he'd release. There was no baby coming with no place for it.

It’s not really an option here but on some other sites you can go back and delete comments.

sometimes I’m caught up identifying with some kind of issue, so I’ll comment _a lot_ but after I’m like, doooooo I really want millions of people to know how I feel about very personal stuff.

Even tho I’m anonymous, some stuff- esp if over time there’s a lot of comments by you on diff subjects- it can look familiar, recognizable.

plus people on line can be so grouchy or condescending and then im just there, explaining and re explaining bc I hate being misunderstood. Then I step back & look at all the text and I’m thinking of this is way too much. I know where I’m coming from but if so beige doesn’t know yo too much text can just look “crazy”

so then I think, we’ll since I’m misunderstood anyhow I might as well delete it all instead of having my soul bared up there for all to see.

udk part of my is like it’s just your opinions and sone people are avoids. But the other part is like get rid get rid get rid. I’m also not used to talking about how I feel I don't know so when I do it on live it can be huge info dump. I lack proportion, I think,

1 bc I’m just very lengthy in explaining stuff normally bc that’s how my brain is wired three always ten parts to each one sort other people see, but also bc I don’t have experience doing it normally so I don't know what’s “normal” nor what’s “too much”. And just the fact of never doing it i got a lot to say in the moment.

Anyhow unlike real life I can delete the words if I want and it’s always tempting and so I don't know if I’m being lazy by not deleting stuff, or being too self conscious in worrying about deleting. I can’t tell. 🤷🏻‍♀️