Me and my boyfriend live together. It’s my name on the house as I bought it but he pays half the rent and pays for things so it’s like ours.
Although he always has his friends round sometimes and smokes and it annoys me but do I have a right to say anything since we both live together? I invite my friends but I always mention it first and give him the heads up about it and my friends are talkative where as his friends just ignore me but I don’t expect a good relationship with his guy friends anyway to be honest as he’d find that weird. For example today I literally came out the shower looking messy and scruffy and his friends was right there and I didn’t even know he was coming? Am I being silly to get angry about this? Or like I haven’t cleaned and then his friends are just here chilling and smoking. I know it’s up to my boyfriend to be the one to establish the rules as it’s his friends but it’s annoying?
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Lets establish a couple of points , you own the house via a mortgage? And he is paying you half a market rent? Is that correct? , we extremely careful with this situation , its your house , You want to loose half of it when you break up? Because on percentages you almost certainly will , that's the most important part.
Now , playing " happy house " lets be sensible , you are beyond this bullshit , right some notes , call a meeting , the two of you , write a strategy for both before ANYONE comes over , you are correct to be angry , its massively inconsiderate , time to get over this hurdle , but remember go back to point 1 .