This is a red flag, especially because it looks like he's not being honest with you.
Also: talking about what he talked about isn't okay. Guys don't normally do that and even if he's not acting on it now, those thoughts lead people down that path.
You should probably break up.
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Dump him. This isn't guy talk, that seems to be way to detailed and specific for guy talk. Yes they will mention a girl being hot, or what they do with their girlfriend but not like what your describing.
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I read the first 3 lines and already knew my response. Break up. It's the double standard that isn't okay. I'd you both kept your phones private then cool. If you both share then cool. Otherwise, break up.
You can't trust him?
Look, a guy is going to have private thoughts he would not want you to hear, okay? He might (in his mind) call you worse names than the C word when he's angry. And that's because he knows you can't read his mind.
He thought his phone was like that. Dumb of him, but there you go. You then demanded access to this unfiltered raw sanctum of his thoughts, and you were not REMOTELY prepared for it. You expected sanitised nonsense, probably.
If he knew you would read his phone he'd never have written it. But HE WOULD STILL HAVE THOUGHT IT.
You are not mature enough to be with anyone, because no one can survive thought police.
Or, since you're too immature to even understand why you're in the wrong, yes dump him because without trust, you have Jack and Shit.I'm sorry to say this but he sounds a bit of an asshole. He can't demand you to show your phone and then not show his, that just a dick move. And even if it was just "guy talk", their conversations are inappropriate and disgusting. And on top of that, he gets all defensive when you confront him about this? Definitely a red flag, you deserve better.
That's not guy talk, leave his ass before he cheats, lies about it for years and he runs off with someone else who he'll do the same too.
Yeah leave him it doesn't sound like there's trust and he's hiding something.
He hides things from you. He is not being honest. I would break up.
Welcome to a man's world... 90% of men are like him... Unless you will be able to find one from the 10%, don't break up with him...
Once trust is gone so is the relationship... forever
that would be a funny story to tell your grandkids 😂😂😂
Yes, break up with him
Sounds like he want to be bill cosby... RUN
Yes without any thinking u can break up with him
Boom, red flag, mofo! 🤜🤛
break up. he deserves better.
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