We were together and he enjoyed time together with 3 kids
But when the kids asked too much of him he’d want to leave and go away. Ended up moving into a box room at his friends house even tho he has a house he let rot.
He would always say “he needs a break from me” cos I’d “demand too much from him”. I’d ask him to look after his own kids.
He was with me the day beofre he met this new girlfriend and has moved insanely fast with her. Threatened me with lawyers but didn’t do it. Obviously so he can tell this girlfriend that
He missed his daughters first day at school and now soon to miss his sons 3rd birthday
He keeps saying he has everything he wants now and I couldn’t give him that (he means going to the pub with his friends together). I just said I’m sorry I don’t wanna leave the kdis all the time to see ur friends together. Was happy to have them over and kids could finally meet his friends (never have in 7 years).
Is he actually truthful and has everything he wants or did he just not want the kids and the effort and the responsibilities
Also I NEVER STOPPED HIM coming to those days. I send over 20 messages asking him
To come those days. And making sure since he promised before this new girlfriend he would.
But when the kids asked too much of him he’d want to leave and go away. Ended up moving into a box room at his friends house even tho he has a house he let rot.
He would always say “he needs a break from me” cos I’d “demand too much from him”. I’d ask him to look after his own kids.
He was with me the day beofre he met this new girlfriend and has moved insanely fast with her. Threatened me with lawyers but didn’t do it. Obviously so he can tell this girlfriend that
He missed his daughters first day at school and now soon to miss his sons 3rd birthday
He keeps saying he has everything he wants now and I couldn’t give him that (he means going to the pub with his friends together). I just said I’m sorry I don’t wanna leave the kdis all the time to see ur friends together. Was happy to have them over and kids could finally meet his friends (never have in 7 years).
Is he actually truthful and has everything he wants or did he just not want the kids and the effort and the responsibilities
Also I NEVER STOPPED HIM coming to those days. I send over 20 messages asking him
To come those days. And making sure since he promised before this new girlfriend he would.
Updates
8 mo
If he does really like this person why has he not tried to see the kids
He offered 4 days a month I laughed and said no. That’s fuck all. Only see your girlfriend 4 days a month and tell me it works?
Then he said fine lawyers. It’s been plenty of time for me to have heard back but I’ve had nothing.
He never even said can I have them this date? Just for just now whislt lawyers are sorted
Could have even brought the new girlfriend to his daughters first day?
He offered 4 days a month I laughed and said no. That’s fuck all. Only see your girlfriend 4 days a month and tell me it works?
Then he said fine lawyers. It’s been plenty of time for me to have heard back but I’ve had nothing.
He never even said can I have them this date? Just for just now whislt lawyers are sorted
Could have even brought the new girlfriend to his daughters first day?
