Search Results: ask him out myself

Is he lying to me?

I know he doesn't tell me everything and hw doesn't communicate with me about how he's feeling because i saw messages he sent his best friend saying completely different things to what he's telling me. And i mean about me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Holidays

Ask me whatever you want to?

Hi there let me introduce myself. I Reezy,27. I am a muscle girl and a small time model. I would like to know you and you can go ahead and ask anything. Happy holidays

deeezy_wings

Xper 1 Age: 28

How to deal with stares?

I know a lot of women gets stared at by these creepy men, I was wondering how you all deal with it? I am from the uk. I go to work and come back from work. There's this dude who makes me feel really uncomfortable...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies, have you ever asked yourself if you would be a different person with your own ideas if we didn't have social media telling us how to be?

https://youtu.be/tbiHOppOwkE?si=Vz-wFROguCpZjjGf I live a purpose driven life and I love who I am. I've never been on social media sites except for GaG. I don't want to be part of the crowd. In fact some men on this...

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Do women typically date what they perceive as a match in appearance?

I ask because one time my then girlfriend told me usually people date people who somewhat match in appearance, she claims to have dated me for my personality and claimed I was a really good guy and when I made myself...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does he TRULY only see me as a friend? OR just scared of commitment?

I started seeing a guy last year (me 31F and him 38M) and we dated for 7 months. We had talks about how we felt about our relationship and if there was anything that was bothering us. Our last “check in” was good, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Should I continue doing this, or cut back?

I’m from a well off family and I have been using my money to help my close friend’s family out, so they can have gifts to open on Mother’s Day, birthdays and xmases. So they can have nice things that they want and need....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do I do about a girlfriend who is either all in or all out?

My girlfriend is either super clingy and affectionate or very aloof and cold. There is literally no in between. When we first met and I was interested in her she was very cold and distant and I questioned whether or not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

How did you know what you wanted to do in your life?

I'm so badly stuck with this thing and my future is scaring me way too much. I really don't know what I want to do in future and I don't even know if I love the subjects I chose for 11th grade. I just have one more year...

Apulu_backagain

Xper 7 Age: 17

Am I just being played by the married man?

So we had a 10 year emotiol affair, we was best friends and spoke daily. 2 years ago it became sexual, but wasn’t a regular thing. Since the sex was added in he pulled away slowly with the emotional stuff, and eventually...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I a bad friend for removing my “online friend” from IG? Why am I always quick to unfriend vs talk through issues with interpersonal relationships?

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I

So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I wouldn’t, when that were the case, he’d follow up a few days or maybe a week after saying I forgot it was his birthday (more subtly). Last year, he wished me a happy belated & this year I decided to also be more laid back. I just asked him if he had a good birthday maybe a day or two after it actually happened, I sent him that message after he followed up with me about something else. He leaves me on read yet continues to view my IG stories.

This has always been the case, he’s always one of the first to see my stories but may go weeks without msging me. A few years back, he’d literally go weeks without replying but will be the first person to see my stories or comment. But when I’d take long to get back to him, he’d *jokingly* say that I’m ignoring him or ask if I’m busy. Honestly I don’t feel like I did anything wrong so I don’t see the need to reach out, it just seems hypocritical. You can be busy but I can’t? He hasn’t made a comment like that in years & his response time has gotten better. I have a tendency to delete people when my frustration has built up, I don’t know if it’s an avoidant personality style trait.

I just…couldn’t bring myself to confront him and ask if he was upset with me. I just felt apathetic yet hopeless in a way, even though I had total control. It’s been over 5 months since I heard from him and we’ve never gone that long without talking, so I took a hint and removed him (unfollowed him/he’s no longer able to follow me) from my IG. He’s still on FB, gaming app & linked in but those platforms are a lot less personal. Now I officially have no “friends” and at 30F I should be A LOT more upset but it’s more worrying about how I’m perceived. Is avoidant attachment the cause? Or excuses and I’m just a shitty friend?

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Why do so many people enjoy provoking others?

I've seen so many videos of people provoking others to the point where they get violent. I can't imagine that being enjoyable, especially if you end up getting physically assaulted for it. I have a lot of shitty opinions,...

ClassicDropout

Xper 6 Age: 29

Do people who rejected you ever come back when you found someone?

As for myself I want someone who genuinely wants me I don’t want to play games and chase after people who aren’t willing to show the same effort. As well as the fact I don’t want to bother someone whose not into me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Can someone please help me figure this out?

Something has been confusing me a lot these days, when I was nine my mom always asked to see my private parts and she once shaved it with some kind of depilatory cream when I said I could do it myself, I told her I didn't...

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Xper 1 Age: 20

Family & Friends

I'm at a young age and I don't know if I'm s/a'd or not?

Anonymous

(18-24)

He wants to do couples onlyfans?

My boyfriend (34yrs old 2 kids) was complaining that we needed to make more money. Be aware… I make really good money for myself. He then asked me if we can do couples onlyfans, should I feel some type of way? (Been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he playing matchmaker, are they both testing my morality, or are they both interested?

My guy friend who I’ll call Brian and his brother who I’ll call Mike kept bringing up the guy I like who I’ll call Fred in conversation, knowing that he rejected me and I was distancing myself, to move on faster. I...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Is it weird that my professor talked about me isolating myself?

One day when I asked him a question at the end of the lecture he mentioned that he felt like i was isolating myself from others and kept telling me how important social interaction with other people would be for my...

Anonymous

(25-29)